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Women find these type of man a turn off and totally annoying.

Posted on 09. Dec, 2008 by emelda in Crazy, Thought, gender, ramblling

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1. Arrogant guy

He has a huge ego and he’s condescending. He is also rude — not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that’s just as bad as being rude directly to her.No woman wants to be talked down to, so I shouldn’t have to tell you to shed the ego when you are dealing with her directly. But in order to really impress her, you need to treat everyone around you with a certain amount of respect — because she’ll be watching.

2. The BOORISH guy

The Boorish Guy doesn’t try to hide the fact that he’s Checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag about his past conquests. Overall, he lacks respect for women. Not only is this type of behavior infuriating, it can also be bad for a woman’s self-esteem. If you act like this, you wont stand teh chance.

3.You talk constantly

You might be a great talker, but if you can’t be silent with her sometimes, then you need to listen up. Your incessant blabber is bound to annoy her sooner or later.Scratch that; it’s probably already annoying her! Women like men who can talk and share, it goes both ways. Make sure you leave the floor open for her to talk too. Ask questions and don’t forget to listen. And remember: sometimes silence is golden.

4. The boring predictable guy

Women don’t like the Predictable Guy because they know exactly how he’ll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. For example, he’d never surprise a woman by spontaneously taking her out for the night. Women look for a certain amount of unpredictability in a man — they want a free spirit. This is why some women seem to be drawn to the notorious “bad boy.” It’s not that they are drawn to his badness exactly, but rather to his unpredictability.

5. The self righteous guy

This guy is very judgmental of others. No one wants to be judged, especially on a date. She’ll just find it annoying and rude. You can preach a little once you are actually in a relationship.

6.The dependent@needy guy

Confidence and independence are very sexy traits in a man but insecurity and dependence are not. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her especially in the early stages of a relationship, she might doubt your ability to do this. And since women tend to come into relationships with all sorts of insecurities, she won’t want to deal with yours as well as her own.

7. The never serious guy

If you tend to continuously tell jokes, you may be annoying her. In fact, too many jokes will just make her think you are avoiding a real conversation and simply being a clown. Try to judge her reaction to your jokes. Does she appear to genuinely enjoy them? And even if she does, don’t forget to intersperse your jokes with actual conversation. Be prepared to ask her questions and listen to the answers.

8. The arguer

This type of guy turns every conversation into an argument. He makes her feel like she’s in debate class rather than on a date/relationship. And in doing so, he makes her feel defensive and self-conscious. A date/relationship should be a pleasant experience, but if she’s on the defensive the whole time, she will not be enjoying herself. Remember this: Constant arguing and debating is a stress and you certainly don’t want her to associate you with a stressful experience— right???

9.Too much PDA

Rule No. 1: Never do anything to embarrass her publicly. And serenading, ogling and smooching her in public might do just that. The last thing you want is a bad rep as being possessive, cheesy or just plain silly. Some women do indeed like a certain degree of PDA, but walk that line with care. Start with a peck in public and judge her reaction before proceeding to the public serenade.

10. The misogynist

This guy makes no secret of his bitterness toward women. He can’t help but exude negativity toward his companion and the entire female gender by making rude and insulting comments. This is the only type of behavior on this list that is, in fact, a total deal-breaker. And it’s not surprising. What woman do you know that would like to be in a relationship with a man like this? You need to reconsider your attitude if you are this type of guy. This type of behavior is not only rude and nasty, it is often the last straw in breaking up a relationship.

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