Out of sight, out of mind friendship…
Posted on 05. Jun, 2009 by emelda in Arguement, Music and lyrics, Personal, Rant, Thought, abused, bla bla, emotional, feelings, friendship, macam-macam, money, ramblling, stupid, youtube
[ad]
Do you know that apedixin, fenphedra among others is a natural appetite suppressants? Apparently they are the best in diet pills in the market now… hmmm…..there’s even a pill that can make you loose weight and at the same time increase the size of a women’s breast! How crazy is that?? LOL! i don’t mind trying that one …hahahaha…as long as the size doesnt go to Pamela Anderson size la…i think i can handle it…wahahahhaha.
Anyway, back to the real post..enough crazy stuff..i dont need diet pills anyway..i just need to workout. LOL!
Have you ever wonder where have all your friends gone too? What happen to them, where they are now, how are they doing and all?
I Do…i wonder where have all my “friends” gone too… it’s like they have vanished into thin air..although, occasionally i do bumped onto them in the mall…but thats about it…they dont make an effort to call, dont make and effort to turn up to any of the function that i invited them to go…nothing! I wonder should i call them to my wedding when i get married? Are they worth the pain and money??
“Pain= to remember their names, Money= sending the invitation card and not to mention the dinner course on the wedding day”
It’s very disappointing and not to mention PAINFUL to know that we were once very close but now its more like out of sight, out of mind friendship. I’ve made an effort to call them…to catch up with them..but it seems like..im the only one who is keeping up with the effort,..i am the only one who gets excited whenever i bumped onto them in the mall.Sigh.
I really wonder what made them change, is it because im not married yet? Is it because i do not have kids yet? Is it because im no longer needed or is it because i am not marrying someone rich and famous and my circle of friends is not from the famous people group? WHAT IS IT??
Geez…sometimes i can’t help but wonder…what was the friendship based on in the first place….SICK i tell you.
P/s: Daniel Merriweather song can be downloaded at www.gallivantism.com
Gallivanter
Jun 5th, 2009
Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.
Unfortunately, there aren’t many out there.
Reply
Mimi
Jun 5th, 2009
Well said Dan!
Good friends are hard to find Moi, but I am sure they still exist, only maybe you haven’t really found one (or 2) yet. But then again, life is made of phases, you gain some, you lose some. I experienced this before, and now I just couldn’t be bothered. I keep few quality friends and treasure them and put my family on top of my priority! That makes me happy enough…
Reply
claire bennet
Jun 5th, 2009
mm…real friends do get excited meeting each other after so long. And i really believe that the depth of any friendship is not just based on how long you know each other but whether or not you accept that person in a way that you feel lucky to have meet someone like him/her.
Reply
Olie
Jun 5th, 2009
maybe you caught them on the wrong timing…. you’re bubbly 24 7 but they were stressed about something 24 7… ekekeke… maybe low self esteem? donno la why ppl are like this nowadays.. maybe we are not in their league so they dowan to hang out with a buncha free spirited loons like us… ka,ka,ka…. well you are not alone… everybody has a buncha no-so-worthy-friends out there… one sided effort.. *sigh* people do change alot don’t they… age catching up maybe? ;-p
Reply
Just
Jun 8th, 2009
*sigh* I wish I could still be one of her best buddy like last time. But, nope. Things changed silently. Lucky that we are still friend thou except sharing is like impossible.
Your post remind me of her..
Reply
Nick Phillips
Jun 8th, 2009
Gallivanter said it perfectly
Reply
Heidi Labadin
Jul 22nd, 2009
Am I one of your PAIN and MONEY??
Ton bah…I’m still ur shoulder to cry on….
Love you babe
Reply
cher
Aug 8th, 2009
i guess people move on, get carried away wif their own lives, some stay while some drift away. It’s not easy, u have to make effort especially when its not convenient anymore. But how many are willing to do so?
Most just want to drift away and blame it on time. If the person is close to you, I believe they will make an effort,maybe not everyday but they still will in one way or another…I know it hurts to lose a friend esp when there is such history but as time changes, sometimes people do…
Weddings are intimate, I always think that it should be surrounded by the people closes to you, not just any tom,dick and harry. So don’t feel pressured to call people who are not present in your life…Esp bec its costs a bomb! just my thoughts!
Reply