Final 2009 story
Posted on 01. Dec, 2009 by emelda in Personal, ramblling
After our engagement .. a lot have changed. Things got better in every ways… my relationship with Dan got better like wayyyyy better.. we don’t argue like there is no tmrw anymore..yes we still have disagreement every now and then.. but we discuss thing better and we are just way more calmer than we used to be before.. it is still a miracle for me till today as how did this “new us’ took place. Don’t get me wrong .. im am blessed and grateful that this finally took place.. but the sudden changed of our temperament just really surprise me.I still wonder.. is it because finally we did the right thing? Getting engaged and getting the blessing from heaven above?
Fast forward to few months later.. we now have completed our marriage course 
” Yeay” our wedding preparation is still on going… can be a headache sometimes..although i try not to get involved with it too much…yes.. my family do not want me to get all stressed out, so they said, let them do it all i have to do is tell them how we wanted it to be.
Im still going through my RCIA class.. only few more months left to go and then i will be baptist already “yeay again” they said it will be next year april 
and then after that … hehehhehe.. it our BIG DAY!!! Heh, im so excited and nervous at the same time. I hope i won’t turn into this crazy sobbing bride on my big day! Been telling myself that since few months ago.. DO NOT CRY LIKE MADE WOMAN ON YOUR WEDDING DAY EMELDA! Oh, im so worried i will turn into one.. hahaha.. ok to tell you guys the truth… almost all weddings i attended ( those who are really close to me la ) mesti sia ter- chocked sikit punya .. MESTI and i hate it!.. I know it’s tears of happiness but eeeeeee make up sia hancur ar! eeeeeeeeee…failed! Hence why i am worried about my own wedding day.. anyone can offer me water proof make up ka?? yg inda pandai hancur hancur ni kena air mata?? LOL! LOL! LOL! Even tengok video orang kahwin pun sia pandai ter tears… aiseh.. emo betul si Emelda ni. Tsk tsk…
Anyway , if you are looking for weight loss diet stuff… you know where to go
Ok la peeps, i gtg… oh by the way.. anyone know where to get a nice dress for my company party this month?? Cheap and affordable punya? Same goes to the shoe. the theme is RED CARPET.. GLAM AND GALMOROUS! I have 3 baju lama which has been worn only like twice here in my wordrobe tapi kan.. hehehe.. hmmm… susah mau cakap… nanti la sia kasih tunjuk tu baju.. i dont know if i want to wear it atau tidak. Mean time.. please give me suggestion mana mau cari baju yang affordable and cantik Thank you !!!
Gallivanter
Dec 1st, 2009
I can hardly wait to put the ring on your finger to officially make you mine.
After that, we can remove one item from our monthly shopping list! Hahahahaha!
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emelda Reply:
December 3rd, 2009 at 9:40 am
hahahhahahahaha…. tsk tsk tsk… noti noti..
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dopeymooke Reply:
December 4th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
good one, Dan:P….but although now that i’m already married with the man of my life, that ONE item from our monthly shopping list is still there…hahaha…pa macam laitu?:P
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Nick Phillips
Dec 1st, 2009
Ah, finally the final part of the story
I’ve been waiting for the conclusion.
Good to know that you guys are going great guns right now
We all have our disagreements, fights and whatnots, even me and wifey but in the end we both know that we simply cannot live without each other 
Glad you guys got things sorted. Here’s wishing the both of you a wonderful life together
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emelda Reply:
December 3rd, 2009 at 9:47 am
Thanks Nick
I sure am glad we got things sorted out at the end too.. kalau tidak haiyooo..can you imagine the headache and heartache?? Gila eh..
But like you said la… no matter how long a couple have been together … sure mesti ada disagreements, fights and whatnots kan??cannot lari punya…Be patience and learn to forgive is the key to help one relationship/marriage? betul tak?
send me regards to wifey ;D
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mom2ashleyaidan
Dec 1st, 2009
well all the best! marriage is also not always a bed of roses and when you have kids, that’ll really test your marriage! have faith girl!
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emelda Reply:
December 3rd, 2009 at 9:50 am
Thanks D,:D. I
I’m sure having kids is another test to my marriage life but like you said.. have faith and that’s what exactly i am doing and still learning to do , have faith in God,Daniel and my marriage life soon to come!
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DdLoner
Dec 1st, 2009
good for you and Dan
And you’re lucky to be able to do the RCIA together…
Enjoyed this post of yours.. I smiled reading this…
Dan: wondering the one list thingy… ;P does it starts with C?
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emelda Reply:
December 3rd, 2009 at 9:57 am
Hey Pris
We are not doing RCIA together..cuma sia satu orang saja ba.. he already baptism ages ago.. 
sia ni saja yg tersesat sikit.. although my whole family is cradle Christian. Kesian kan me? heheh
That question you need to tanya Dan himself la gurl…hahahha
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DdLoner Reply:
December 20th, 2009 at 2:17 am
o ya kah? bah. now y’re a Catholic ody la ya? … I can understand tho..
keep updating the preps k… Love it..
Oh ya, have fun in Bali!!!
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shoppinghaunts
Dec 2nd, 2009
good luck yea!!
nanti semua ter-smudge on your muka 
make sure you wear waterproof eyeliner and mascara during your wedding
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emelda Reply:
December 3rd, 2009 at 9:59 am
Thank you!!!
I think i need the whole face waterproof make up.. not only my eye liner and mascara .. LOL!
YOu have waterproof make up for me to pakai??
Do you do make up ka?? I mean seriously.. do you offer make up service? Since your make up collection banyak ni.. i thought you might be doing this service 
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Amanda
Dec 2nd, 2009
my mom and aunty2 pun kuat nangis bila anak buah dorang kawin, something i cant understand…teda perasaan o sy :/…but anyway, make sure ur bridesmaid pigang tissue and touch up kit di altar, just in case
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emelda Reply:
December 3rd, 2009 at 10:02 am
Hahahhaha.. Manda.. pandai ada prasan juga kau tu nanti if you are really really close to that person.. Sia pun macam kau juga dulu..i was thinking why la diorang ni semua mau nangis nangis.. sekali my close friend got married, then i know how it feels like
pandai automatic ni air mata mau keluar.. spoil betul! hahahaha
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chegu carol
Dec 2nd, 2009
hahahaha..im curious what’s that one item that dan talking about removing. haha…
mcm sia pun x sabar mau tunggu nxt year May owh..mau tingu kamu dua at the altar, exchanging wdg vows. and u know what, i have this thoughts that dan (or you, or both of you) will come up with something crazy…either planned or spontaneously. i dunno, i just think that you two are capable of doing something unexpected. hahaha…
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emelda Reply:
December 3rd, 2009 at 10:06 am
hahah tu carol you kena tanya si dan sendiri.. apa yg dia mau kasih hilang from the shopping list…hahahha sot ba dia ni.
Hahahah… tu thoughts kau tu kan..sia sendiri pun tidak heran kalau itu terjadi oh.. but most probably from Dan la.. sia ni inda segila si Dan gia…hahahahhahaha..
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cindy
Dec 3rd, 2009
I love weddings! And like chegu carol, I’m curious to know what that ONE ITEM is?!?
LoL
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dopeymooke
Dec 4th, 2009
*clap* *clap* *clap* good posts…sungguh memberi inspirasi
Congrats and all the best for 2010.. GBU
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marmalade
Dec 4th, 2009
aww…sweet la u guys..God bless u both..
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Pinknpurplelizard
Dec 7th, 2009
Sometimes, its the groom that cries. Mel, you can make your wedding fun as well. Here’s an idea for you (not sure if u tengok d or not)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-94JhLEiN0
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olie
Dec 14th, 2009
hmm… macam sa tau tau saja apa item yg kena remove! ishh *perasan me* be still my notti notti mind! Macam begitu la sa rasa.. once ada per-ikatan/ connection adi… the relationship will get better and better day by day.. it’s a blessing indeed! Can’t wait for the day to come.. sia mau tingu ko nangis! he,he,he….
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