So if you wanted to have all those hustle and bustle and crazy music and less privacy.. Chaweng beach is the place for you.. but if you wanted a quiet and peaceful and more privacy, cheongmon is a great place to be.. i love where we stayed.

As for the rate, Daniel was really lucky that he got it cheaper than it’s original price. He found it on the net but sorry peeps, i don’t know what’s the site called pula.. he did say something about that site but i don’t remember the name anymore. The original price for the room per nite is at RM800 but of cos we got it way cheaper than that..thanks to the site and my clever husband, LOL! Kalau saya tu..mana la sia pandai masuk net mencari….

Our room is just one of the other design they have there..there was another one that comes with their own private pool… the manager offered us that room, all we need to do was to  add on another Rm500 per nite..but of cos i said no sebab i want to shop!! hahahahahahahah..so no we did not try that room… siapa la mau ada private pool when there is like 2 public pools for us to use in that hotel! Righttttttttt???

For a week i was there, i actually never visited their pub I mean Q signature hotel pub..im not even sure if there is one..hahah so im not sure if they have Rocky Patel brand cigar or not there…sorry for those who loves their cigar and specially this brand..i can’t help you out.

Anyway, enough of talking..here’s the picture of the hotel for you to see, enjoy!!

The second swimming pool in this hotel and the rest of the hotel rooms

My fav in the room..hahaha yes, i like soaking in bathtub and the view that’s offered here…SUPERB!!! Sea view….

The walkway to the bedroom

Jeng jeng jeng… the bed!

The balcony view..facing the greenery.. NICE!!

Small TV for such a big room!

The first thing you see when you enter the room.

So yup guys, that’s our room and that’s Q signature hotel for you I highly recommend this hotel for you if you ever visit Samui in future…

P/s:  Let me tell you something funny…. in samui there’s so many dogs around…BIG FAT HUGE SIZE DOGS!!! Im not joking!! Even their strays are fat and chubby!  Most of them are very very friendly…

But i think that night when we were on our way back to our hotel…. we met a dog who is not in a good mood.  As soon as Daniel and i rode pass him, the dog started chasing for my leg, of cos i was so scare..i started screaming but Dan inda prasan yg tu anjing mengejar my kaki and still riding slow.. not until when my kaki sudah ternaik mau sampai tu handle and still screaming on top of my lungs then only he realized and speed up…hahahhahaha… if i remember that night again.. i still could laugh my head out.. i mean..which honeymooner kena kejar anjing on their honeymoon trip??!! hahahahahahahahahaha… only in samui!

When i think about it… it felt like we only met each other one year ago but in fact… it’s already 3 years!

Who ever thought our friendship started from internet bloom all the way to walking down the aisle. I, never thought it would..just because we are two VERYYYY different person.

He loves meeting new people where i am more comfortable with the circle of friends i have now. He grew up with music where else for me… i grew up in sport and fitness world. He loves milk chocolate and i love dark chocolate. I’m ok with using my HP for like 5 years where he needs to change his phone every 1 or 2 years..LOL! “betulkan love?” I know nothing about internet mumbo jumbo where he knows almost everything about it ( actually to me, he knows everything)….hahahah

We both strong headed person…both ada opinion sendiri.. which at time we feel like kicking each other ass…but at the end of the day.. we still would and could work things out  together( thank God)..no matter what it is…come to think about it..the list can go on and on at how different we are.. but look at both of us now, we will be walking down the aisle real soon! LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL, AMAZING and MAGICAL huh?? It makes you want and need to work things out no matter how…

Anyway..enough of us… hahaha… i can’t wait till the day he put this ring on my finger!!! WOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…… and i will offically be Emelda Vincent- Franklin… er actually i can’t decide still if i wanna go with Franklin or Gomez at the end…LOL!!!

His and Mine …:D

hahahahahhahah… no you won’t see it till the day itself…sabarrrr ok

Oh, im looking for outdoor décor for our dear  house.. you know the small water fountain?? What i meant by saying “small” bukan la yg kecil sangat sangat ar.. yg sederhana punya size.. i like to have some water flowing soudn in the house.. macam syiok pula sia rasa… don’t you think so?? I have seen few.. tapi.. hmm either it’s bida.. oh just WAYYY TOOOO EXPENSIVE…isk…

Im currently staying in Tanjung Bunga hotel. The room is ok , i have bath tub ( yey!) which i always berendam in every night. My view is facing the ocean with biggggggggg window The only downside of this hotel is that everything in this place is super expensive! Internet is not free.. so if you wanna have connection you will have to pay Rm8 per hour or Rm25 for a day use! Nasib la bosscat and lizzy is here to  pinjam me their broadband and bawa me makan around…kalau tidak im sure i will be bored to death here. and maybe tumbuh balik my adult acne …terlalu stress sebab boring punya pasal. LOL!! ‘touch wood”

Anyway, i know i promised to blog about my after experience from my RCIA retreat..tapi sia rasa .. i would just keep that for now.. nanti bila sia betul betul ready…maybe one day i will story story again

Tadi pagi ba.. ada ni middle east couple.. bikin gerigitan oh! My hotel provide breakfast in the morning..so sia selalunya makan toast saja..im not a breakfast person ba. So while i was waiting for the bread to come out from the toaster sia pi la letak my coffee on my table. I somehow knew that the MAN want to take my bread instead of making one for himself…..but sia inda juga mau tegur terus..i was waiting what was his next move!

Can you believe what he did next?? Instead of taking my bread… he actually pi tekan my bread and then letak balik!!! Of cos, when that happen….sia tegur dia terus… told him hey that’s my toast! And you know what? ..That idiot did not even bother to say sorry!! The couple just pretended that dia inda dengar me.. and walked away! ARGGGGGGG.. punya la bikin gerigitan!! Sial betul ni… benci sia oh!

Of cos, i did not bother to take the toast anymore, made a new one after that..siapa la mau pi makan makanan yg orang sudah pi pegang and kau inda pun tau dari mana tu tangan dia keluar and pigi… isk!  Never knew ada juga orang macam tu masih… padahal can afford to stay in this expensive hotel….teda adat langsung oh diorang sia rasa ni! EEEEEEE..sakit hati!

Tmrw… kalau sia nampak lagi dia buat perkara yg sama to me….i wont let it go just like that..i will make sure..everyone hear me  in the restaurant. Tired of people like this…

Although the manager was really nice to by offering me the job.. i turned it down at the end of the day. It is definitely not because i was so malu-fied by my car incident.. but i got a better job offer like i said,  i got 3 job offers in line remember?? . That was when i came back to the fitness industry. The pay was similar to what i was being offered at the first job offer ( where my car was nearly towed away) maybe even more by end of the month actually becuuase it was a sales industry.. but i don’t dare to take the challenge to be sales person again.. after i think i failed miserably on my second job outside of fitness industry…LOL! ( tinting consultant)

So June was the mark of my life changing to a better life.. no it was not rosy straight away, i have so much baggage carried on my shoulder from the pass 1 year half.. all those bad things that happen to me really made me scared of what’s gonna happen next and that was my relationship that i was worried about. You see, like i said..Dan and i went through bad patch, really bad patch that made me think.. is it worth it? Should i really continue with this?

And then something happen.. i was sent to Jakarta for month for work.. all that time when we had our bad patch.. all i ever wanted was to be away from Daniel.. a time for myself to think about what i really want in my life and my relationship and of cos to give Dan some space of his own to think things through.  That was a good 1 month break from each other…

When i was away from him, i tried not to think about him, care about him and worried about him.. but that’s what exactly took place when i was in JKT… i miss him. I miss his jokes, his morning kisses, his morning perfume smell.. just him being him and around me. I miss that.. but of cos, i never really admitted that to him.. i let me ego do the talking. I was hurt and still bitter with whatever happen the past few months before…the argument we go through was too much for me.. i believe it was too much for him too.. for us to be arguing like there is no tmrw. At one point, i even asked him to call our engagement OFF!  Yes, i was that upset.. but i know.. deep down that’s not what i really wanted and i thank God that he did not listen to my crazy self talking .. Dan never gave up on us. Instead he was there for me.

July came.. that was the month that made me nervous like hell!! July was the month we got engaged …

As some of you might already know now, kadazadusun  has so much of adat resam when it comes to engagement or wedding or any big celebration.and that’s one of the main reason why i was nervous. I was so worried that Dan’s parent could not take the ” rules and regulation”  that the night before our engagement day..nerve build up….Dan and i had a small disagreement .. and trust me that did not help me at all.. hahah i was not able to sleep well the night before the engagment day. The morning came..i tell you… it was a nerve wrecking for me… seeing and listening to both parents talking and discussing .. ohhhhh… did not do me any good. The whole time when they were doing the talk.. the “adult talk” they called it, i was so nervous nasib la sia inda sampai pi ambil Medicare supplement plan, lol! …I believe Dan was nervous too… heheheeh   ” I won’t tell them my love, your secret safe with me ”

I was only able to smile, relax and enjoy my engagement day after the ring exchanging ceremony… hahahhahaha.. yes me being silly and worrying so much for no reason.. i should have listened and trust Daniel that everything will be ok.. i won’t go through the moment of torturing myself and be nervous isn’t it?? I am sure the video that was taken by Dan’s uncle will be a proved of me being nervous…hahaha.. i hope he won’t show that during our wedding day.. malu eh!

Picture on our engagement day

To be continue again…..

It felt like it happen only yesterday that i  got HITCHED officially and now looking back it’s  nearly two months since 18.07.09 ( few more days it’s going to be two month) .

Both of us was so busy right after the engagement..we didn’t really get to enjoy our new status  as newly “ENGAGED”  and now we are already on the roll with the wedding plan.  The only time we had for ourself to enjoy our newly engaged status was our Krabi holiday..LOL!

As soon as we got back from kk.. things just got into fast farward mode ( that’s how i felt) i have to study and prepare my training module, going into meetings after meetings and then straight on to conducting training after training. On top of that, every weekend now we have to do loads of travelling, checking  out wedding stuff, flowers, venues, cakes.. make up artist..etc etc and not to forget..i have RCIA class to attend. Wahahahahhaahah… FULL BLAST YO!

In month of october, we have wedding course to attend, Feb flying back to KK for wedding interview and  i guess when we are there.. another loads of stuff to check and see. I am lucky to have my sister Anitha to help me out with kk side wedding reception..if not..haha, im sure im gonna pull my hair out!  Not a pretty sight to see when the bride start pulling her hair isn’t it..LOL!!!

Ahh.. even writing this up made me feel “waaa..so banyak kerja” but im not alone… I have a strong support from my family back home, sister and brother is running the whole show there, im so lucky to have them as my siblings… kalau inda i have no idea how am i gonna deal with the whole situation i believe.

In Kl, i have Dan’s mom, brother and cousin  sister helping us out and of cos… my strong macho man Daniel.

Saw this NC short term health insurance, that reminds me..i need to get my insurance stuff done too soon. ah..another to do list..

The front view of the wedding gown which was posted at my earlier post.

I am ready to be  the wife to Mr Daniel Franklin Gomez

We’ve been very busy lately specially the weekend. Never really had a time to sit, relax and enjoy the weekend anymore like how we used to be hehe..but im enjoying every second of it. Although it is really tiring but heck…im not complaining at all, LOL!! Which woman would complain when you get to try on like tonnes of beautiful gown and make you feel like a princess at every fitting kan?

This was one of the gown fitting i did at Pretty in White in Hartamas… Love the detailing on the train…i think its gorgeous but nope..this is not gonna be my wedding gown ;P ni teaser saja ba…

Ba ok la..im off to check out online backup. I need that magic lil stuff to store all my pictures and work. My laptop memory is getting “stuffier” by day now..:P

Floating village..

I really enjoy this boat ride. despite me being wet with the unpredictable weather in Krabi

See… exactly what i said.. sekejap sana tu awan jadi hitam.. and bikin takut ar, sebab the wind was soo strong macam ada ribut pula sia rasa kadang kadang.

Me, riding bike on my own. I manage juga.. tapi inda la pi jalan raya.. only at the  hotel parking area. Best pula kan ride motor ni…LOL!LOL!

This was taken on the day we’re leaving Krabi…hahah kesian ba kami .. kepunan matahari Krabi.

Just like the signage i was holding said.. this restaurant serve clean and good food!! Yummy.. tapi jangan harap makanan sini murah sangat….1 beef, vege , tom yam soup (small), 2 steam rice and 2 drinks.. can cost you up to Rm 34-36  but you won’t regret it la.

Ba sia mau surf  and look for tv stands dulu, i think it’s time for me to do so.. get a new tv stand at home

Ba, till then. Nite peeps.

Our transportation to airport to hotel and vise versa.. included in our package. Taking Taxi will cost your 600 baht per way

This is the scenery you get to see in Krabi.. i like the bukit bukit or gunung gunung di sana..cantik!

Our hotel name..i recommend this place if you ever visit Krabi..:)

Our room

The balcony of our room..

The mat rempit of the year!!

Boat ride to the famous landmark/symbol of Krabi

The famous symbol..unfortunately..i can’t remember the name.

The cave.. my first cave visit. Interesting yet scary for me…LOL!

The dancing mangrove.

Stay tune.. more pictures will be uploaded..for now me wanna sleep..nite people.

As you all may already know, we spent our weekend at Krabi this time around as our post engagement holiday. It was really fun! I really enjoyed the short weekend trip.

We arrived on Friday afternoon only to be greeted by rainy, cloudy and windy weather. The hotel coordinator told us that the weather has been like that for the past few days and may last till weekend. My heart sank when i heard the news.As soon as we reach the hotel, we waste no time and went out to check Krabi Pranang beach area. Before we stroll down the beach, Dan suggested that we should rent a motorbike to go around town and head we go hunt for motorbike rental place. Five minute walk later.. we found the place. For 200 baht per day (rm20) and we have our own “superbike” to travel in Krabi.

I was kinda nervous at first when Dan start the motorbike, it was my first time riding bike with him and that was his first too after his accident 10 years ago, LOL!! But after a while, we both had fun, laughing and Dan’s making funny sound and comments while riding the bike…ah.. that was quite an experience for me..oh did i mentioned? I also pandai pandai start motorbike and rode for about 200 meter back and forth..heheh that was fun..but i dont think i will do that here in Malaysia. Sini scary la.

Anyway, on the second day weather was still  gloomy and our island trip has to be cancelled due to choppy sea and unpredictable weather. We decided to extend the bike rental and took a trip down to Krabi town about 30 km away from where we stayed. At town, we took a boat to I can’t remember the river name now but it was suppose to bring us to this famous Krabi landmark. Along the way, we stop at one spot where we were allowed to go into a cave..that was scary yet exciting for me.. i never been to a cave before in my whole life..so that was the first (again) for me.

After the cave trip, the boat man took us to canal of mangrove.. i see lots and lots of kayu bakau “menari”. The way the tree intertwined with each other…really look like they were dancing. But the first thing pops in my mind when i saw the mangrove  was the dogs that was thrown at pulau ketam i wonder what happen to those dogs… sigh.. i hope every single of them was rescued now.

After the boat ride, which cost us 300 baht each (rm30 per person for an hour) we were suppose to go and climb this tiger cave with 1200 steps! Yes, you read that right 1200 steps.. but hahahah..someone said..er.. lets cancel that one and just go to gastrpod fossil beach.. and hop we go to that beach..sampai sana…hmm it was kinda dull for us.. so we didnt want to waste another Rm20 per person just to see batu or siput kerang yg sudah bertahun lama di dalam laut and jadi fossils… so we just did bit of shopping and went back home straight to hotel.

All in all.. the trip was really relaxing,fun and enjoyable  despite being disappointed for not being able to go to Phi Phi island and enjoy the white sandy beach as how Leonardo Dicaprio get to enjoy it in his movie called THE BEACH.

Dan and i promise we will come back to Krabi again soon to enjoy the island next round.

For now, i need to check this fat burner out ;P

By the time you read this post i am already at airport on the way to Krabi for our 3 days 2 nights holiday ( if you are reading this tmrw morning, that is). I am excited yet at the same time worried. Excited cos it’s holiday means i dont have to work, worried because i have work bertimbun waiting for me here in Kl to settle I just hope i can enjoy this holiday. I have a loads to study before proceeding with the training that i am suppose to conduct for all the trainers here..pressure is on!

Anyway, these past few days has been a crazy day for me. I really had a busy week that i could not really attend to my blog and update it as often as before.. i have lost so much of my assignment due to my work schedule. Sampai rumah saja terus sia malas sudah..all i wanna do is rest and relax. sayang oh all my assigments tu…tsk tsk tsk.

Early morning on tuesday i had mild food poisoning..i think i have food poisoning. Early in the morning, i started vomitting but all that came out was yellow color fluid..and its so bitter! And then i start purging at around 9 am…sigh.. but i had to go to work.. because i have an important meeting to do.. i managed to hold everything back ( didn’t puke and purge) but towards the evening.. my head pula throbbing like hell! At one point, it was so painful that i really feel like puking again.. sigh..i have no idea why la. I think that was my migrain attacking.

Wednesday took an mc..went to clinic..Doc said, my tummy is full of gas but i have no idea what’s with my head…because that morning my head still throbbing … hmmm.. is it because of my period? I always have this weird sicknesses whenever i have my monthly visit..kenapa tu ar? Do you ladies experience the same thing?

Sigh.. any how.. i will continue with this on next round.. as its already 1am and i really need to sleep.. i seriously wanna know.. am i the only one experiencing  all this weird symptom?? Or is it normal??

Hmmm sidetrack sekejap… don’t you wish Malaysia too have a cool rv parks like those places in the west?? Heheheh.. i always wonder how it feels like to have a moving home must be fun ka? Boleh pigi picnic anywhere and everywhere without worrying much about building tents and all.

And oh… this trip … Dan and i will be travelling using the famous surgical mask! That will be our first…LOL!! Dan even said..we should address each other as Doctor Dan and Emelda and use the surgical gloves too!!  Wahahahah..i wonder what will the airport people say…Hmmmm…;P

Its been more than 3 weeks since i last updated my blog. Been busy and away, sorry about that peeps.

Ok im just gonna do quick update here today as i don’t have much time to spare before i have to head to my bed and zzzzzz…tomorrow is working day and im dead tired from our trip back to kk. ( lambat tidur semalam, LOL!!)

My trip back to Sabah this time around meant a lot to both Dan and i. We got ENGAGED and the day that we choose falls on  18.07.09….exactly 2 years 11 days after we became couple. Thank you to those who congratulate us at facebook  Pictures will be uploaded and updated soon at facebook. Please do give us time while we are trying settle back in KL after being away for too long (well, at least for me la)

Meantime, here’s some pictures for you to see Enjoy! All pictures courtesy of my cousin Erin Gray… for more info about her..do check her blog out at the link given

Hmm..after two weeks being with my mom and family, i must say..i have gained extra pounds, arggggggg!!

If  im gonna go on like this, eating like there is no tomorrow….i serioulsy will need to find weight loss supplements ASAP!!  Sob sob..workout session starts again…from Tuesday onwards.

Pearl of the Orient@ Pulau Pinang

Yes, i just got back from the island today, loads of things has changed there since my last visit back in year 2003…i can’t remember most of the place now but i enjoyed the short trip. It was only a day trip this time around but im sure the next one will definitely be a longer trip.

We arrived at the airport around 9am and my new colleague was kind enough to bring Jeff and me to makan place in the morning before heading to the gym.

A nice view from the Gym...yup while running onthe treadmill..this is the view you'll see

Gurney area didn’t change much..the stall that we used to go and makan was still there..the beach area was still the same except the mall apparently got a new extension to it. Back in FF years, whenever we go to Penang it only meant one thing…PIGGING OUT TIME! Yea, we were so crazy that we wallop anything and everything..that time i could afford to makan like that la..but now, heh..i have to control my food intake..yea la, i don’ t workout as much as before anymore..metabolism pun kurang dy..susah juga kan kalau tiba tiba ada orang yg mau kena pakai AED to revive ourself back kan??LOL!! Palis-palis!

Jeff S.

Today also marked the last day im gonna be seeing this dude(Jeff)… and that’s mean when i’m back from Jakarta and my holiday…i will be on my own already, i am definitely nervous because one week of learning and trying to understand the culture of the clubs is not enough..but i hope with the training provided in Jakarta…im good to go.

Hmm… nervous, nervous! But, whatever it is…life have to go on kan? And with that said, i thanked Jeff for everything..for teaching me and showing me around the club for the past one week. Hope to see you again! Im sure i will call you bila me balik from Jakarta..im sure i have forgetten where and what i need to do first thing in the morning when i arrive the club again in August! LOL!

Other note… i’m leaving soon..sob sob..im worried definitely, i have never been outside of Malaysia for so long all by myself although im sure my colleagues in Jakarta a nice people  but i am worried about sleeping at new place all alone on the first day..tau la kan…strange place and all..i hope i can sleep..aiya. I hope teda la bunyi yang bukan bukan di tengah malam..kalau inda, siapa la sia akan call?? Aaaaarg! “Guntalou juga sia ni, jangan kama”

I must remind myself to bring one of Dan’s baju….just to “tipu” my otak at least for the first few days, LOL!

Thinking about leaving them behind make me miss them so much already…aiseh! Sob Sob!

Day 1 at work today, what did i gained or learned today?? Let’s see..

1- My team mates mainly Men..only 20% women instructors

2- I am so petite standing next to them..so petite that i can’t help but felt intimidated by them..lol! ( for first time i felt like that in gym..LOL) To me …they are like HULK and im like a small lil girl…

3- I have so many things to learn, specially with muscles name and exercises name ( ok, i know the basic name of the  exercise but the specific saintific name…white flags for me)

4- My biggest upcoming challenge will be..to get bunch of people be interested in learning and passing their exams with flying colors! Kalau inda, year end..no bonus for me..sob sob sob!

5- I will be away starting this friday till mid next month and will be back to kl for one day just in time to change my baju’s and repack all my holiday baju’s back to KK for 2 weeks! This will be the longest time that i ever been far away (alone) from home, Gummi and Dan…sedih pula sia ni…astaga. Im sure i’m gonna miss all of them dearly! I hope i can do it…sob sob.

” i can hear Daniel giggling at the back quietly for his 1 month freedom”

6-And tomorrow will be a gruelling day for me..visiting 2 clubs,learn more about muscles,exercises, more info about teh trainers needs and then gonna have to work my ass out with the current development coach. I hope i can walk after the workout session without the need of holding any of the plasma stand in the gym! Memalukan saja kalau sia start crawling ni…ROFL!!

Countdown begins today…3 more days to Penang ,6 more days to Jakarta and a month and four days left to Sabah getaway! Wohoooo!

I hope i get to go sight seeing in Jakarta over the weekend…i hope someone there will be nice enough to show me around and i hope Dan will make a trip down to JKT  :P malangnya ..Gummi can’t come along..uwaaaaaaaaa!!

To do chappati dough is not as challenging as rolling the dough…although making a good chappati you will need the dough texture to be just nice..not too soft and not too hard…but i still think rolling dough is much more challenging than mixing it.

My first attempt rolling “round” chappati was not very successful. I never manage to make it as round as in the mamak shop does..i always ended up rolling some weird shape and once i even manage to roll a Sabah Map, Seriously! But i didn’t manage to snap a picture of that particular “map” cos the hungry boy at home wallop it in no time ( This  is one of his fav food)

Anyway, i’ll show you pictures of my first  attempt making a round chappati..

That’s my another way of trying to make a round chappati…using my hand instead of the roller…LOL! But as you can see..i’m just not making any round chappati…i made some weird chappati shape instead.

and my dough…hahaha..i didnt do well with it too…i kinda made it bit tooo hard or too thin..im not sure cos it turn out to be a crispy chappati instead..LOL!

Another not so round chappati shape…. see the one on the chappati pan…

But after making few rounds of chappati for dinner and breakfast  at home and with some guidance from Dan’s mom…  i finally manage to make a decent round chappati and good dough now..im still not 100% perfect yet with everything..but at least im not making any crazy shape anymore, LOL!  One day, will show you the round shape chappati pictures but for now i need to check the undermount sink, i believe something must have clogged it..cos everytime i wash my dishes..the water doesn’t seems to drain away as fast as before..wonder what’s happening and i wonder if there is a way to clear the “kerongkong” of the sink??? Hmmm

I need money…i need money..i need money…YES, I NEED MOOLAH!!!! Although i know moolah is coming to visit me soon but that will only happen in 4 weeks time from now..and then all that moolah will again be “invested” in the bank.. ARGGGGG..dang it..we work to pay only for the  freaking damn debts…arg…well that at least for me now..i need to catch up with what ever that i did not pay for the past few months..1st thing that i need to pay off is MY CAR..my beloved car. 1 more year to go and im done paying that car installment and im debt free (at least for the car la) so sayang la if i let the car go..although i have thought about selling it off..but hmmm..tak sampai hati juga.

Earlier this month, i went to the bank to apply for their so called super fast debit card approval..hahaha…that was just a freaking lie.. its almost 3 weeks now..i still haven’t heard from them so i decided to call the HQ yesterday..guess what??? The application is still in process!!! WTF! Now, im worried …will they decline my debit card application? They shouldn’t right? Because after all its my money in the bank, unlike credit card…Hmmm ntah la. Kalau this tak approve juga..pengsan la me..i’ve been keeping and saving all my hard work money from blogging to use for my trip back to kk which is only 6 weeks away from now (i think its 6 week) and without that money…waaaaaaaa..i memang kering macam ikan masin la ni bila sia balik kk… dang it! MONEY MONEY MONEY…isk! So menyusahkan..with you pun susah without you pun susah! With you i can get what ever i want like discount lingerie or some cute lil stuff… tapi bila over spent pula, mampus kering balik..bila kering… makan roti kering sajala…isk! Balik lagi sia jadi ikan kering…waaaaa…

Kering ,kering ,kering…sigh.

Anyway, this weekend i hope it will be a better weekend for me not like last week, .. i really need to go out this weekend to get stuff for my trip back to kk…maybe not buying it(yet) but just do price comparison… i don’t think i have enough time when i start with the new work.. my weekend will be taken away. Yea i work weekend but im hoping that this coming interview (friday) will be a good news for me..it’s something that im really looking forward for and i hope im hired. Please, please Lord have mercy on me ..please give me this job, i want the job.

Oh dear, im excited and  nervous at the same time.

Hmm, i guess that’s all for  now..need to do some house chores and do myself a Chappati for breakfast Yes, i can do chappati from scracth! Hehehehe…thanks to Dan’s mom, my cooking improved! Ah..maybe on my next post, will show you guys how i did my chappati for the first time…i had a good laugh at myself!

Stupid Monday!! Yea, that’s what i will call today..STUPID MONDAY!

First of all i didnt had a good weekend… it was a shitty weekend..don’t asked why i dont want to talk about it because talking about it will just ignite my anger and hatred and seriously even if i  talk about it…it will just freaking waste my time!!

And then came today the Stupid Monday…early in the morning i received an email from an unknown lady saying that i BETRAYED her because i didnt turn up for the meeting that we both had agreed on last sunday. I apparently just didn’t bothered to show up because the price she has offered  to buy some product from mudah.com did not meet my expectation..im like HUH?? What the fuck?? I didn’t even agreed on selling my stuff to her in the first place..i only sent her an email last night saying that i have sold that particular product  earlier and have deleted the advertisement the same day she asked me for the discount…how can i arranged and appointment with  her pula on Sunday when the product has been sold??  Stupid Fool!  Anyway, i replied to her email telling her she must have gotten the wrong person and we definitely did not make any arrangement to meet up on SUNDAY..and explained to her that we only kept in touch once and that was when i sent her the email thanking her for showing interest in my product and told her that it was sold to someone else already.  Sigh.. at the end..she realized it..she sent me an apology email…tsk tsk tsk…kan sia kena marah for no darn reason?? EARLY IN THE MORNING??

Then i went for an interview today at shah alam sec 16..while waiting for the interview to begin ( second interview with the Datuk) came the security gurad of the company telling me..cik ada orang nak jumpa pasal kereta cik la..dah lama diorang tunggu macam 30 min dah tu.. immediately i know who they are…the car tower! Or what ever they are called la.. i prepared myself for the worse that there is a tow car waiting to tow my car..came out i didn’t see towing car but 2 indian dude big size just like a thug..one thin and one fat.

The thin fella explain to me that they are from the towing company and now because my car has not been paid for 3 month they need to repossess the car if i am not gonna pay it…then i told them my situation that i could not pay now since i dont have a job and my money is running low..but i will definitely pay once i get some money. Then the thin feela said..ok la macam ni..kami tolong you la ni hari..kami kasih lepas you..you bayar bank bila you ada duit tapi you bagi kita duit juga la sebab kita pun makan gaji juga..now, what is your understanding when someone said that to you?? They want money don’t they?? when he said that you bagi kami duit…. i immediately know he wants to squeeze me..and then i told him..look, i dont have cash now.i cant pay you whatsoever..i have interview going on at this moment and im trying to get a job… but let me make a call first and they said ok…

I know that asking kopi money was wrong and they will get into trouble if they were caught doing  so. So the first thing i did was called Dan and told him they want to take my car and asking me for money..now, as soon as i said that “THEY ASKED ME MONEY” the thin guy face changed and he was panicking and said i didn’t asked you for money..i just told you to pay to the bank and then he have the cheek to say..I as in me emelda DO NOT UNDERSTAND…and he asked me to pass the phone to the big fat dude to talk to Daniel..by the time this fat dude was talking to Daniel..the interviewer came out and asked me..what’s the fuss all about .. “i was so malu ok” and told him that this fella asking me money because i could not pay my car since im not working for how many months already…then the kind manager told them ..she will pay the car,give her one week..”macam dia tau saja ni duit mau masuk in my bank” then he said..leave her now… the two indians dude..left without asking me for money anymore…i guess they takut..but the funny thing was…THEY DENIED IT TO DANIEL… They said..we didnt asked for money but she panicked and talked nonsense and told you we asked for money and my dearest Bf just said..oh ok…sigh…

Anyway, the second round interview went on…of cos, Datuk asked me what was going on and whats the fuss all about… memang malu la..but i have to kasih tebal muka and told him the whole story..he asked me why haven’t i paid..told him i have been out of job for so long..and money is running low..hence why i didn’t pay..i could not concentrate on the interview but it has to go on.. i was given a tough questions…this is not fitness industry job…totally different from my last job..i do not know much about it but i guess i manage to pull some “guns” out specially when i said…. I blog and i have steady visitor everyday…Malaysia itself around 100 to 150 a day and i told them that we once organized SBG 08 and it was a  success just by using internet and bloggers to help promote the event without the media help not until much later”

So i am starting a new job in a week time, job that i have no experience what so ever but im willing to learn although im worried that i could not deliver the result… but i guess what Dan’s said made sense..give it a go… at least there is some pocket money for you to roll till you get your next job…

Sigh…im so hating my situation right now… im so hating yfitness for closing down… its been a year now that i have no steady job… i never live like this before… and definitely never live on few bucks a week…arg..hating the situation!

I know i have a new job already and  i should be happy..but the job comes with big responsibility and of cos im not 100% confident cos i never work in that line before…in my head now, im thinking…can i do it? Can i prove im worthy for that Rmxxxx a month??can i reach the target?? Sighhhhhhhhh…

Oh Dear Lord, please help me….give me the strength and drive to keep pushing and not give up… mayb one day my dream of buying outdoor furniture will come true juga when i can prove to them im worth the Rmxxxx

‘iklan sekejap’

Hah!  So much of my “I wanna be lazy on my birthday plan and talk” wahahhaha..so not! I ended up cleaning the house.. sweeping, mopping, washing all dishes, feed gummi,clean her cage and gave her shower…u know why?? Because of stupid American idol result! I was so irritated and sakit hati that Kris won the title..sometimes i wonder…Orang america ni ada otak ka inda da? Do they choose talent or look? I thought American Idol was talent contest not “beauty contest”…sigh..oh well..Im sure Adam will be a successful singer from today onwards even if he didn’t get to be crowned as American Idol Winner. Yeay to that! Nevertheless, Congrats Kris…wish you all the best and good luck with your new career!

Enough with AI..come back to me. So there’s so much of things has happen since the last day i updated my post. I when for an interview yesterday at Sri Kembangan..not sure if  im gonna get that job or not  but if  i do ..hmmm..i may need to rethink again..LOL!! Basic rendah and the travelling time needed is ridiculously panjang from home to Kembangan its like 45 minutes for me…adeh deh.. pengsan la sia kalau hari hari spend that much time on the road to work and back home and that timing tak masuk traffic jam…imagine if its peak time…arg..i may spent like 2 hours…LOL!

And then in the evening, i volunteered for Harlem Globetrotters event.  Dan’s company needed help and i offered myself to do it, easy job..just usher Datuks and Datins to their sit..and thats about it..the hard part was..to recognize them and then “halau” orang tak faham bahasa…yes… sometimes people can be such a pain in the arse la.tsk tsk tsk..i had so much fun at the event…i laughed so much that my jaw was hurting and same goes to my tummy… they were damn funny and talented!  Will show pictures later.

On Monday, i made a trip to KLIA…No i was not there to fetch anyone or buy ticket to some exotic get away holiday, but i was there for my cousin and my lil niece Brooklyn. They have 3 hours to spare before their flight back to Sdyney..since i do not know when will i see them again.. so i took the chance to go and see them. I only have 1 half hour time together but it is worth every toll money and gas for me. Ya la.. like i said..i do not know bila lagi i can see them..they come back to kk once a year and its not always the same month and date as my travelling plan back to kk…so yea.. and OMG, my niece is such a cutie pie, friendly, talkative ( in baby language) and hahahah…very naughty. She rebut my fruit from my hand and finish it up..yes, my cousin bought few bananas from Kg…sia makan sikit saja..the rest habis my niece makan..hahah..Brook sempat lagi kasih pecah one glass in the airport..she nearly gave her mom a heart attack! I hope i will be bale to see them again soon…like in a years time from now, not 5 or 10 years down the road

Today was my 1st birthday celebration at Dan’s family house ( last year we were out celebrating it). Dan’s mom made me a cheese cake(yummy cheese cake) and Dan’s Step dad cooked me dinner. At least one of my wish today came true heheh..Im so thankful for their nice warm gesture… ya la, im not their daughter ( yet) but they really made an effort for my day..althought its small celebration..but it meant a lot to me. Thank you Auntie and Uncle..and Sumee for being there, celebrating my birthday together. Really appreciate it.

So im a year older ..im officially 28 today …gonna hit the number 3 soon… am i hating it you ask?? NOPE..i dont..i like my age and im waiting for the number 3 to come soon too ( patiently)… Even with number 3 in front..i dont think my life will change a lot…i will only be wiser, richer, prettier and happier!  Im loving my life!

How about you? Loving your age and embracing it gracefully??

He came to the door, gave me the silliest smile just the exact smile when he has something “crazy” in his mind. I knew right away there is something going on..but i just didn’t know it was this time.

When he handed me the piece of paper..i thought to myself..OMG…what is it now? I took it without much enthusiasm… Read  it briefly and then put it aside but deep inside i was secretly smiling, touched and at the same time wanted to laugh my ass out!

He asked me to come near him and handed me an ugly plastic bag .. I looked at him thinking to myself..WHAT?? A TAG?? You gave me a TAG?? But why?? I don’t need one…But not wanting to hurt him, i took the tag and put it aside ,smiled and said thank you.

I guess he saw my facial expression( it’s not that im not happy but  i was seriously feeling really down, with everything that’s going on in my life now and  period is not helping too) and he quickly said ” Im sorry my love, that’s all i can afford this year”….

Today,once again i took the note out and read it for another time… and this time i laughed.

Love,

We may not be rich in cash but i know… we have enough love to last us for longgggggggg time.

(Although,sometimes i know we feel like kicking each other’s butt out,but what the heck . which couple never have dissagrement anyway??)

And yes, as your lil naughty note say..i will remember you whenever i pass a toll from this day onwards!

May the future brings you a job,

And may it be more than a BLOWJOB ( for me),

May we make love until we grow old and saggy,

and may you remember my love whenever you pass A TOLL!

-Daniel F. Gomez-

That poem was the most expensive present i ever received this year.

P/s: Im keeping this till we grow old and saggy..:D

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OK so i have been slacking for the past few days..but it’s a long weekend so i can’t help but be lazy…LOL! I had pretty good week last week. Had good workout routine and also good weekend. Didn’t do much over the weekend but spent most of our time at shopping mall to catch X-Men ( damn good movie! Worth wacthing.. and i sooooo lurve hugh Jackman there!) and did some birthday present hunting .. heheh… My birthday present and Dan’s mom birthday present and yes Daniel always complaint when May comes..sebab dia bilang buntut dia koyak mau beli present for me and the Mom…LOL! Kesian.

I got my first present from Daniel last week… i got 4 books from him..YEAY!!! Me likey… i can’t wait to read all of the books! He bought me ( i choose he pay ;P)

1) Confession of an Air Stewardess by Little Black Dress Book Marissa Mackle.

2)Who’s That girl By Alexandra Potter

3)The Time Traveller’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger – My first book out of Chic lit genre ( i think..im sure i have read other genre too but Dan said this is his first time seeing me getting book NOT from Chic Lit)

4)Hysterical Blondeness Little balck book by Suzanne Macpherson.

and i just found out i have few more books waiting to be read! LOL! typical me… suka menyimpan barang..

1) Got You Back – Jane Fallon

2)I take this Man Little black book by Valerie Frankel

3) The importance of being Married by Gemma Townley – “This is not wedding book but a chic lit book”

So in total i have 7  more books to go…wohooooooooooo!!!

I just finish reading UGLY by Constance Briscoe. True story of a loveless child deeply disturbing but ultimately inspiring.. The mother systematically abuse her daughter  both physically and emotionally,regulary beaten and starved. When she was 13 , the mother simply moved out and leaving her daughter to fend for herself: there was no gas, electricity and food. But somehow Constance found the courage to survive her terrible start of life…..its really heartbreaking story….

Anyone out there have read those book listed above? Tell me what you think ..Good? Bad? Disaster?

Ba ok la…im off to create my work out routine for today…

P/s: Will do post of my workout routine soon ( once i can get all the workout photo’s taken,LOL!) I think with pictures it is so much better than just words… it’s easier to understand..don’t you think? Specially for the beginners..

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I had an early start today

Woke up at 8am. Did my house chores, Sweep and mopped the floor, did my laundry, fed gummi, clean her “toilet” tray, Clean her eyes ( yes, i need to do this every morning. She is suffering from dry eyes ) and lit few home frangrance oil around the house…and now, the house smelling real good..me likey!

I was suppose to do my workout yesterday but Dan said postpone it to today..he was so tired from work ..wait rephrase that again. He was so tired the whole day yesterday because he woke up at 3am to watch football game and could not go back to sleep after that..so he end up sighing, tossing and turning in bed for 2 hours! Which of cos,irritate me a few time sebab everytime he turn, whole bed bergoyang! (I’m a light sleeper)

Dah tu, the past 2 days pun i didn’t have peaceful sleep cos on Monday..kuat sangat angin here in Shah Alam..my wind chime was was making so much of sound that it not only woke me up but scare the hell out of me..macam taufan pula sia rasa and then i have to come outside to save Daniel’s pants from flying to the ground floor. Not only i got wet..i went to sleep with the hujan juga…LOL! Malas sudah mau lap badan..tidur terus.

On Tuesday..just as i was about to go into deep sleep,suddenly i hear this loud crashing/banging sound coming from the next room(i thought it was from the next room). I panicked!! U know how it feels like to be awaken by loud sound and you are so disorientated  that you just couldn’t think what to do or what to think? Yes, that’s exactly how i was last Tuesday, i woke up and sat on my bed for few second and think “shit that’s it, someone is in the house!”  then again  “don’t be silly Emelda, you are on the 12th floor how in the world can someone come in into the house?”  Dengan mata separuh buka..i open our bedroom window, peep to the next room,close my window back land on my pillow and went straight to my sleep…bagus kan me? LOL!!

While drifting back to my la la land…i still can hear that loud crashing and bangin sound..i can hear them talking… and every now and then i can hear their footsteps then it hit me …..that’s actually my neighbour argueing in the wee morning….

Laaaaaaaaaa…. buang tidur sia saja…

My top floor neigbour have this weird habits..diorang ni suka berlari-lari di tengah tengah malam buta around the house ..love to drag furnitures around , love their toilet so much that they have to visit the loo like every few minutes ( i can hear the door goes..krik,kruk,krik,kruk) How irritating is that???!!! To make matter much more interesting… you can hear all this activity loud and clear only in our MASTER BEDROOM everytime after 10pm, arggggggg!! I so wanna shoot my neighbours ass!!

I dont know who is occupaying that top floor though..cos all this while i only hear adults voice talking but never kids voice..but that running around and dragging furniture/things around the house sounded like small kids doing..hmmm..interesting..could it be them the adults? Transformed themselves into kids everytimes after 10pm?? Maybe, maybe…..itu sebab they can’t think kan?? LOL! LOL! LOL!

Whatever it is..i wish i have a better neighbour than the current one

Hmm..ba ok la..i got to go..have a nice day peeps.

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