Kadazan Bonita

How are you all? Hope everything is well at your end. My life has been pretty busy ( what’s new kan?) with training and paper work. Been getting headache on and off since last week..sigh..

Anyhow, my birthday celebration as well as our 1st wedding anniversary is coming up..been thinking to do a get together for it.. but hmmm… i don’t know where should i celebrate it at sunway or pj area… till today i still can’t decide..despite me saying that i will inform by this monday..now it’s already wednesday.. but i still don’t know..hahahahahah

Talking about birthday party, i encounter this creepy,irritating incident recently while creating an event on FB. I was very new to it, i have no idea how to create the event..( yes, that is the dumb blonde in me coming out) I mean i know there is a create event button but i do not know how to make it a “PRIVATE EVENT” but i tried anyway….i was looking high and low for the button but all i could see was the “Anyone can view button” but if you un- tick it, another button will pop up…it says “Guess can invite friends” and still no sign off “private event” button.

So i tick that “guess can invite friends” button anyway..hoping that it would be a private event where only invited people can come..but boyyyyyyyy..i was soooooooo wrong!!!

This guy had been in my Fb for sometimes now..it started with an innocent question asking about fitness.. He asked me if know how to help him build muscle.. since it’s about fitness.. i emailed him back.. and he request friend so i added him since he is in my FF friend list as well.. lil did i know..this is where all these craziness going to start.

From Fitness questions, it moves to questions that bit more personal  to me like what is my  hobby,what i like do to.. etc etc.. i stop replying to the email after that but i made sure that he knows i am not interested in sharing my personal stuff with him. I thought that was the end of it…WRONG!

Anyway cut story short.. when i created the event on my FB.. i really did not anticipate that he would actually invite himself to my birthday party. I mean who would do that? Someone created an event be it private or not la ok… if i don’t invite you..would you invite your ownself to that party???!!! He can even say he wants to be my photographer of the night???!!! Are you OUT OF YOUR MIND??!!! I never had this kind of people in my life before…it’s so irritating and creepy at the same time… I was obviously fuming after i saw all that.. not enough with flooding my wall..he came up on my chat box! Asking about… bila i can derma my baju to him so he could give my baju to charity… wait let me rephrase that.. MY NIKE TOP!!! When can i derma my NIKE TOP!? OMG!!!! My nike top is very personal to me ok.. i sweat in it.. i work out with it.. and you expect me to give that to charity?? What sick person would do that??!! Derma your SPORT BRA to charity???!! He has been asking this for so long and i told him i dont derma my nike top to people ( the first time around).. but i can give money donation if he really wants to minta tolong derma.. his answer: I don’t want your money…but i want your nike baju..Now i don’t know what is his definition of NIKE BAJU/CLOTHES but to me.. that’s mean..My NIKE BRA TOP! Cos i only have that now with me.. the rest sudah sia bagi my nieces..

I told him off after that.. deleted and blocked him from my facebook..  i seriously don’t need this in my life..

I don’t mind admirer.. i think admirer makes you wanna make yourself better and be role model to all of them… ( im talking about being fit and all yea guys) but admirer macam ni.. it is very creepy peeps. it’s not fun and it’s not funny.. I respect people who admire me secara diam diam.. inda perlu tunjuk sampai to this extend… respect their privacy and let them have their life too…you don’t have to bugged them to the extend of stalking and invading their privacy. Understand this, you can be caught and sued for doing that….

I really think the society nowadays are getting sicker and sicker in the head..:(

May God protect us all..