Anyhow, my birthday celebration as well as our 1st wedding anniversary is coming up..been thinking to do a get together for it.. but hmmm… i don’t know where should i celebrate it at sunway or pj area… till today i still can’t decide..despite me saying that i will inform by this monday..now it’s already wednesday.. but i still don’t know..hahahahahah

Talking about birthday party, i encounter this creepy,irritating incident recently while creating an event on FB. I was very new to it, i have no idea how to create the event..( yes, that is the dumb blonde in me coming out) I mean i know there is a create event button but i do not know how to make it a “PRIVATE EVENT” but i tried anyway….i was looking high and low for the button but all i could see was the “Anyone can view button” but if you un- tick it, another button will pop up…it says “Guess can invite friends” and still no sign off “private event” button.

So i tick that “guess can invite friends” button anyway..hoping that it would be a private event where only invited people can come..but boyyyyyyyy..i was soooooooo wrong!!!

This guy had been in my Fb for sometimes now..it started with an innocent question asking about fitness.. He asked me if know how to help him build muscle.. since it’s about fitness.. i emailed him back.. and he request friend so i added him since he is in my FF friend list as well.. lil did i know..this is where all these craziness going to start.

From Fitness questions, it moves to questions that bit more personal  to me like what is my  hobby,what i like do to.. etc etc.. i stop replying to the email after that but i made sure that he knows i am not interested in sharing my personal stuff with him. I thought that was the end of it…WRONG!

Anyway cut story short.. when i created the event on my FB.. i really did not anticipate that he would actually invite himself to my birthday party. I mean who would do that? Someone created an event be it private or not la ok… if i don’t invite you..would you invite your ownself to that party???!!! He can even say he wants to be my photographer of the night???!!! Are you OUT OF YOUR MIND??!!! I never had this kind of people in my life before…it’s so irritating and creepy at the same time… I was obviously fuming after i saw all that.. not enough with flooding my wall..he came up on my chat box! Asking about… bila i can derma my baju to him so he could give my baju to charity… wait let me rephrase that.. MY NIKE TOP!!! When can i derma my NIKE TOP!? OMG!!!! My nike top is very personal to me ok.. i sweat in it.. i work out with it.. and you expect me to give that to charity?? What sick person would do that??!! Derma your SPORT BRA to charity???!! He has been asking this for so long and i told him i dont derma my nike top to people ( the first time around).. but i can give money donation if he really wants to minta tolong derma.. his answer: I don’t want your money…but i want your nike baju..Now i don’t know what is his definition of NIKE BAJU/CLOTHES but to me.. that’s mean..My NIKE BRA TOP! Cos i only have that now with me.. the rest sudah sia bagi my nieces..

I told him off after that.. deleted and blocked him from my facebook..  i seriously don’t need this in my life..

I don’t mind admirer.. i think admirer makes you wanna make yourself better and be role model to all of them… ( im talking about being fit and all yea guys) but admirer macam ni.. it is very creepy peeps. it’s not fun and it’s not funny.. I respect people who admire me secara diam diam.. inda perlu tunjuk sampai to this extend… respect their privacy and let them have their life too…you don’t have to bugged them to the extend of stalking and invading their privacy. Understand this, you can be caught and sued for doing that….

I really think the society nowadays are getting sicker and sicker in the head..:(

May God protect us all..

Gonna try to beat this craziness today in the gym, yesterday i missed my workout because of last minute plan changes.. we went Christmas present shopping pula..LOL! a very short and fast Christmas shopping.. hoping that i could do my workout routine at home..tapi came home with blister on my kaki pula! Celaka punya kasut tinggi! Pakai too long sampai kaki sakit.. so end up no workout. Balik rumah kononnya mau blog, tapi i have so many present waiting to be wrapped.. na.. trus tidak blog lagi.. so basically my plan for yesterday semua rosak la…

I hope today’s plan will go as planned la… kalau inda sigh… naik la berat badan ni…

I still can’t think what to give Dan for his Christmas present this year.. im getting really anxious, tired and bit irritated cos i can’t seem to think what to give him..isk! Susah la jadi lelaki ni…sigh.

Karang i beli barcode scanner for him baru tau…LOL! macam mana tu ar?? apa la kunun dia bulih buat with that scanner?? Scanner si Gummi?? heheheheh..sigh.. anyway..i better go la.. nanti ja la sia sia kasih upload my workout routine bila sia sudah try it ..:)

Like i said in the previous post, because of my shout out i posted in facebook..i received an advice from someone whom i have lost contact with for more than 10 years.

We found one another in facebook recently (i think 1 month after i got married) and have added each other into our friend list. All these while, i have only spoken to her twice in facebook. Once to congratulate her on her upcoming (then) wedding and recently wishing her happy birthday. That was the only contact we’ve made over the past 10 years.

And with that two contact we’ve made, she seems to be thinking she knows me very well already. ( well, that’s how i feel..i mean she must be right?? Because she can write me an email and give me an advice… AMPLE advice some more she said, LOL)

I for once won’t and will never give an advice to someone whom i do not know very well , whats more if i don’t know the whole story. I think it’s plain rude to do so and most probably you will only be looking for trouble by offending your friends apalagi kalau you like to go on an ASSUMING MODE! That’s really no good!

Well this dear friend of mine did exactly just that…she send me an advice, going on ASSUMING MODE on the whole situation… and the way she gave me the advice…OMG!! It came across to me, not as an advice but pretty much like someone who has nothing else better to do but just being plain NOSY!

Dear.. ko gaduh ka ngan hubby..if butul ko gaduh geng..
kita isteri yg baik baik gaduh dlm bilik kn..
ample reminder as a good fren..
no hurt feeling kay muah..

That’s exactly what she wrote to me in my FB email….Now if you were me… wouldn’t you be offended with that? What does she meant by “KITA ISTERI YG BAIK BAIK GADUH DLM BILIK KN”??

Is she trying to tell me im no good as a wife??Is she telling me she is a good wife? What and who gave her that idea? Is it because she recently became someone’s wife so she is a good wife now and have the whole idea on how to become a good wife already??

I mean, even if i wanna fight with my husband in public, is that your problem? Even if i wanna scream and shout .. is that your problem? And kalau pun sia mau bernaked in my fb…will that be your issue as well and will give me an advice?

As human, i believe everything has it’s limit… and giving advice not knowing the head and tails of the whole matter is one of them….secondly, if you do not know that person well… that’s already your BIG BIG BIG Sign telling you…BACK OFF! Geez….

If you are wondering did i reply her email back..HELL YEA i did…LOL! Let’s just say her reply back after that …. TYPICAL THEM…..
I’m close minded person, different religion ( what does this gotta do with the whole thing ar?), She met the wrong person( that’s me she referring too) and i am someone who can’t accept advice apparently….

“thinking to myself, won’t everyone react the same way as me kalau you don’t know the person well apalagi bila teda contact for 10 years plus and then out of the blue.. Your friend mau pandai pandai bagi advice and main assume ja the whole situation without knowing head and tails of it??” Kalau kau inda react like me… i salute you la that you can let people “intrude’ your life.

Hmmm… anyway.. i think i need some serious Branson Missouri vacation already la… too much shit crap, nosy people lately in my facebook and i definitely need to delete those people off from my life…… Husband says it will do me good which i agree with that 100% too!

?”Eee..think she’s mental la,semua orang pun dia mau add” – that statement made me laugh out loud tadi…walaupun tu sinis..tapi ada juga kebenaran dalam tu statement..i mean siapa juga pi add orang yang kau inda kenal di dalam your FB friend list? We may be friend but that doesn’t mean you are my friends friend too…tsk tsk tsk…

Then, Daniel replied to my shout out like this…

Daniel Franklin Gomez for me, i accept friend requests from virtually anyone, because my underlying reasons is danielfranklingomez.com, muahaha! marketing bebey!

to which i replied

Emelda Vincent-Gomez Dan-Tht’s ok kalau orang yg add..but if you were the one who is adding people you don’t know to your friend list..don’t you think that’s weird?

Now, does it sound like we are arguing in this comment??

Give me your say…..

And oh do’t worry, This has nothing to do with any sale pitch or whatsoever..it is just me asking the question

” DO YOU THINK WE ARE ARGUING??”

Tell me… hehehhe

p/s: I will try and tell you the whole story after this post..so stay tune!

Unfortunately, on the 10th June 2010 at 4:30pm … our house was broken into. Just few days after our wedding celebration here in kl… All our gold jewelery gone, G10 canon camera with all our family picture in it gone and my Christmas hand phone present from Daniel…gone too! We’ve lost approximately around Rm12k in a blink of an eye!

To some, Rm12k is nothing but to us..it means so much!   Specially our dear camera… i dont mind much about the gold… but not the camera..all our wedding pictures, family outing… everything was in it. Sakit hati gila babi i tell you. Nothing can replace all the pictures in it… all our dear memories…gone! ARGGGGG!

We left home at 7am to send family to Airport and then when out to kl to shop for bit..came back at 4:30pm.. only to be greeted with messy room! I don’t know why he only goes into our main room…but not our study room. My net book was left alone… my piggy bank was still there with some of my ang pow money from the wedding…it still puzzle me. Was he in a hurry? Did he saw us coming back hence left the second room alone? I don’t know… how did he knows we were not home…that’s even more puzzling!

Sigh… i know i should be grateful that our dear life was not unharmed..but still…we’ve lost so much of our saving! To recuperate from the trauma is another thing.. i now seriously don’t feel safe no more in my own home… knowing the fact that this idiot did not fall to his death from our balcony..scare the hell out of me!  Do you know what floor are we staying at? Freaking 12th floor and he came in from our kitchen door!  I’ll show you pictures so you can see how he comes in..and you will freaked out too knowing that he did not fall to his death because he is freaking professional!

I seriously am cursing him like no body’s business… i dont care what you all think out there that all this small things can beli lagi.. but to me..it’s not about buying new stuff no more.. it’s about my privacy..my pictures..my family pictures..my wedding pictures… everything in that camera and for that…i curse that he will get 10 times worse type of  punishment then what he did to us! The sooner the better and if i can see him suffer… uhhhh lagi best!

URG! Talking about this fucker just added few wrinkles on my face i feel! ARGG… now i have to cari best wrinkle cream in town to kurang kan stress line…eeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Anyway… i’ll let you guys see the picture.. you would be wondering too…how come he did not fall to his death from our kitchen balcony!

That’s how he came into our kitchen door… by cutting our kitchen grill padlock hanger. Clean cut kan??

And he jump from here and hanging on to the grill only….. See the middle pasu… he moved it and you can actually see his foot print!

And i wonder why he did not fall to his death because this is what waiting for him kalau salah langkah!

And that white color thing you see in this picture…was the only thing that he can step on while doing his cutting job. He was practically…hanging la ba.. while doing his work.  Tu tempat pijak was only like 10cm??!!!

Sia menyesal i was not home that day…kalau ada..i would not think twice to push this idiot down…. SELF DEFENSE MA ;D

Last time, it was female trainer who gets envy or jealouse of me…but hahah..this time it’s the male trainers…Wahahahhaha..can you believe that?? MALE TRAINERS? God what has become of this world now?? Entah la..

Sigh… Kesian jantan jantan di gym kami ni.. particularly that center..grew up guys… if you really think you deserve the spot better than me because you so called have ACSM/ACE/FITT certificate in your hand..why don’t you apply for the position and replace me?? Bloody face me and tell me that im under qualified… If im really not qualified..im sure i won’t be hired in this position in the first place aren’t i? My MD won’t be hiring me rightttttttttt?? What now, are you gonna say that im having an affair with my MD because he hired me?? Geeezzz boys.. grow up and be a man! If you not…why don’t you tuck your balls in between your legs and walk like a girl?? Or even better…bloody swallow your freaking smelly stinking balls..mungkin berkurap, berjerawat and bau busuk sudah .. tsk..tsk..tsk.. i suggest you go and get best acne medicine la boy..before really your balls hilang!

Apparently now, because of that particular club trainers gossip like a BIATCH… the rookies pun scared to come near me or be seen near me… specially if the rookies is a male.. sebab..kononnya now.. everyone that come close to me… they would gossip and say i am having an affair with them…ARGGG.. FUCKOLS!! Geramnya hati ku… tapi sia inda la juga bulih cakap banyak in gym.. kalau la sia ada bukti yg KUKUH ( meaning that the rookies would go up and be my saksi) i would really fucking complaint to my MD and asked him to freaking throw them to timbaktu!

I think kan..Gym people kan..really la cannot see you as a woman and be more  successful than them la ( The men i mean)..they will just try and try to “kill” you …Geez..i never have a male trainer who goes nutso over my position in club…i really hope this people will drop and go down the drain la REALLY SOON! I will be happy seriously.. i don’t need to see them in the training room anymore and face them after this.

GRRRR!!

- Anyone can claim to be your friend but some friends are in the name only. The grief caused when a close friendship turns sour is as bad as death. This evil impulse we have! Why was it ever formed? HOw did it manage to cover the earth with deceit? Some people will be your friend as long as things are going well, but they will turn against  you when trouble comes. A real friend will help you against your enemies and protect you in the fight. Never forget such companion in battle share the results of your victory with him. -

How true is that? I was reading Sirach in the bible today and came upon this… this phrase really reminded me of all the friends that i have back home..the one that i used to call my  HIGH SCHOOL BFF…now they all have become my FALSE FRIEND.

I don’t think i want to explain what really happen between me and them…sakit hati saja.. satu hilang sebab duit ( im not rich,my parents  could not give her what the other gurl parents could give her) and banyak lagi la she hurt me and the other one…. hilang@MIA@ do not bother to keep in touch..since she started dating this man who promises her the world and give her loads of moolah…but never actually have the guts to marry her really….because ………..you fill in the blank la.

Sigh.. anyway, let’s check this out  orlando vacations im sure you will enjoy it If only i have tonnes of moolah.. i don’t mind going there for vacation!

Oh well..keep wishing emelda. Keep wishing

i know i should not let these two bitches get into my head..but i could not help but i want to rant it out here in my blog! This goes out to all those people who still think we SABAHAN still live on a tree, speak “alien” language and still dwell in black magic to make a man falls in love with you! F.U!

Last week.. i heard two of Dan’s female colleague thinks that i ..I EMELDA VINCENT cast a black magic on Daniel!!  BLACK MAGIC???!! MEEEEEEEE??? CAST A SPELL ON DANIEL?? These women seriously digging their own shit la…

This is for you S and N…listen carefully….ok??

I never once, cakap buruk pasal korang to anyone…all these while..i have been nothing but nice to you all..althought my guts feeling tells me you two have some issue that you need to settle on and it also tells me to be careful with you two.  I should have listened to my guts from the beginning! I should have never be nice to you two.

I should have never asked Dan to send you home S whenever you don’t have transport back home whenever you guys hang out till late night.. i should have never let Dan give you lift in our car N…because you just leave a bloody stain in the car..you bloody stained the car with your gatalness written all over your face and body! I should have known you two have these intention to put me down to Dan’s other collegues.

Hey perempuan.. i think you need to go back to school la and start learning manners again. Jangan pandai pandai cakap without even thinking..What can i do kalau Dan decided himself not to speak to you ladies anymore? My problem is it? Kalau kau mau tau sangat kenapa Dan refuse to talk to you all.. why don’t you ask him yourself? Why libatkan me? Saying that i cast a bloody black magic spell on him? Korang ingat aku ni takder kerje lain ker?? Common la … kalau betul aku ni terrer sangat with black magic.. aku takkan pilih orang biasa.. baik kenakan anak kerabat diraja kan?? BODOH BIN BAHLUL Punya betina! Just because im sabahan… you said that about me..

You know what perempuan?? I am happy and glad that Daniel decided not to speak to you all anymore..biarla mulut kamu tu penuh dengan air liur ja tengok si Dan…kamu takut sangat mau tau kenapa si Dan inda mau cakap with you two.. kamu pandai pandai buat cerita…Sia betul betul bagi kamu black magic..baru padan muka kamu orang…baru kamu tau what is black magic and how it really feels like to be under one black magic spell… eeeeeeee geram betul sia!

To you S… i hope i wont be seeing you this near time..jangan sampai i go and ask you myself..what was this story about..and N… pray that i don’t see you in the GYM working out and pray that you are not in my GX class if i ever start teaching again…

And to all those people who have not been to SABAH and DO NOT KNOW anything about us….STOP TALKING NONSENSE! UNDERSTAND??

Walaupun kami orang KG for you all..tapi kami ada pelajaran,manner,pride and dignity! If we don’t ..how the hell can someone like Daphne Iking be so successful in Malaysia?? Think about that people and have you asked yourself how in the world i can be here in KL for almost 10 years working in a GYM industry and now working as a National Coach for CELEBRITY FITNESS? THINK PEOPLE THINK!

oh…Kalau tak tau siapa Daphne or mana Sabah..pi beli Linksys router and then google.

Sigh.. i have been depending on my lap top to remember all the important password that now i could not even movie tu.  I have been depending on my lap top to remember all the important password that now i could not even remember some of the other site password…aiyaaaaaaaaa so ma fan ar.. GERAM!

Neway, im just gonna make this a quick one today.. I just wanna tell you all that i am still very much alive but been busy and of cos can’t update my blog that often now since…lap top decided to have its own mind and do not want to cooperate with me. GEEZ!!

Anyone who wants to sponsor me one new laptop and maybe some weight loss products, please do drop me a note here.

BTW, i am not in KK and am not based in KK.. Im in KL and based here in KL.. so siapa siapa yg ada bagi invitations for event in KK, i really appreciate it and thank you for the invitation but i have to turn it down for now.. sebab sia balik kk satu tahun satu kali ja gia..

P/s: Never ask a man help when you are not sure about things or tell them you don’t understand.. because you end up hearing them scream at your face more than helping you out.. ” note to emelda” bikin panas saja ada la…

I feel like i just ran through a steel buildings after the training today… urg..i hate that feeling, the feeling of being helpless, worried and not to mention emotionally hurt.

I was disappointed with the whole training session today, specially the morning session.   The more i get to know the team here.. the more worried i am. sigh.. i really feel like im in the Grid iron movie. The team lack of team spirit, respect and demotivated. Not to mention attitude issue.. sigh.  Everyone came to training with their own issue…

Although deep down in me, i am telling myself to hang on, be patience but other part of me.. irritated, getting emo and at the same time..feel sad to these trainers.

I wish i was given more time to get to know them better, at least training wont be so tough ( that’s how i think la) Breaking the ice with these trainer is so hard..specially when EGO is involved. They think that they are superb and don’t need anymore follow up training..sigh.

Oh well, i pray that i will be strong and lots of patience.

I wonder what else can i do to motivate these people, change their attitude and start respecting themselves? I see they have sooo much potential in them but the attitude covers all their good qualities. I wish they can see that in themselves.

1 weeks gone, 2 and half more to go before i can go home and hug Gummi. I miss her so much, that i don’t even wanna go and see pet section in the mall..takut sia nangis. sigh..i wish i have a 3G phone so i can call back home and get to see gummi from it…sighhhhhhh.

My training was not as intense as i thought it would be maybe just  mentally challenging as i need to remember every single workout name in full! I’ve also learned few bahasa indonesia like Macet, Cepet, Jorok,kasus..LOL!!  But i still do not understand their food here..banyak bahasa yang sia inda faham and its kinda hard to order food because of that… as they do not know who to translate it to Bahasa Melayu. Tau la sia ni cerewet when it comes to food.

The traffic here is horrendous tahap gila..i do not know how Jakartan’s can take it everyday driving in that condition. Motorcycle, bas, car everything is in same lane and worse..they love to honk at each other..whether they are asking you to make way for them, angry honk, impatience honk, whatever la….. diorang mesti honk! Kalau honk sekali inda pa..ni balik balik…bikin panas!

But its totally different when it comes to the people here…they are so warm, welcoming, friendly and nice. They are so curious about me..always asking questions, where im from, what am i doing here, what race am i…banyakla..and now i have added few more people in my facebook friend list..and all of them are the trainers here.

When it comes to food, there is only 2 choices for you here. Either you spent your money on super expensive food (standardnya sama macam di ss2 wai sek kai..cuma kau dalam aircon area and mall) or you go to the most affordable food but its kinda hmmm..inda sedap. Ispent most of my money here buying food..i can’t get used to makanan diorang di sini specially in the kantin. Don’t ask me why they call it Canteen. Although some of it looks yummy tapi sia inda berani makan. In the food court,satu Char kuey tiaw equal to Rm8-9 per plate!  And kalau kau mau beli minuman kotak yang kecil where we normally get it in KL for Rm1..sini bulih sampai Rm3.50! That’s how mahal it is here bila you choose to makan in a good place. Sigh!! Gila i tell you..im sure i won’t need any diet pills that work if i hari hari macam ni..sure kurus dengan semula jadinya…LOL!

Here’s some of the pic..

The most expensive Char kuey tiaw i ever makan!

This is another club that i visited recently but the atmosphere doesn’t feel like you are in the gym but more like in a spa.

They even have their own saloon in the gym! Yes, i did my new hair color here..not too bad juga la the result! Murah highlight and coloring only around Rm164.

The Lounge area in the vip club..

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Anyway, back to the real post..enough crazy stuff..i dont need diet pills anyway..i just need to workout. LOL!

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Have you ever wonder where have all your friends gone too? What happen to them, where they are now, how are they doing and all?

I Do…i wonder where have all my “friends” gone too… it’s like they have vanished into thin air..although, occasionally i do bumped onto them in the mall…but thats about it…they dont make an effort to call, dont make and effort to turn up to any of the function that i invited them to go…nothing! I wonder should i call them to my wedding when i get married? Are they worth the pain and money??

“Pain= to remember their names, Money= sending the invitation card and not to mention the dinner course on the wedding day”

It’s very disappointing and not to mention PAINFUL to know that we were once very close but now its more like out of sight, out of mind friendship.  I’ve made an effort to call them…to catch up with them..but it seems like..im the only one who is keeping up with the effort,..i am the only one who gets excited whenever i bumped onto them in the mall.Sigh.

I really wonder what made them change, is it because im not married yet?  Is it because i do not have kids yet? Is it because im no longer needed or is it because i am not marrying someone rich and famous and my circle of friends  is not from the famous people group? WHAT IS IT??

Geez…sometimes i can’t help but wonder…what was the friendship based on in the first place….SICK i tell you.

P/s:  Daniel Merriweather song can be downloaded at www.gallivantism.com

Stupid Monday!! Yea, that’s what i will call today..STUPID MONDAY!

First of all i didnt had a good weekend… it was a shitty weekend..don’t asked why i dont want to talk about it because talking about it will just ignite my anger and hatred and seriously even if i  talk about it…it will just freaking waste my time!!

And then came today the Stupid Monday…early in the morning i received an email from an unknown lady saying that i BETRAYED her because i didnt turn up for the meeting that we both had agreed on last sunday. I apparently just didn’t bothered to show up because the price she has offered  to buy some product from mudah.com did not meet my expectation..im like HUH?? What the fuck?? I didn’t even agreed on selling my stuff to her in the first place..i only sent her an email last night saying that i have sold that particular product  earlier and have deleted the advertisement the same day she asked me for the discount…how can i arranged and appointment with  her pula on Sunday when the product has been sold??  Stupid Fool!  Anyway, i replied to her email telling her she must have gotten the wrong person and we definitely did not make any arrangement to meet up on SUNDAY..and explained to her that we only kept in touch once and that was when i sent her the email thanking her for showing interest in my product and told her that it was sold to someone else already.  Sigh.. at the end..she realized it..she sent me an apology email…tsk tsk tsk…kan sia kena marah for no darn reason?? EARLY IN THE MORNING??

Then i went for an interview today at shah alam sec 16..while waiting for the interview to begin ( second interview with the Datuk) came the security gurad of the company telling me..cik ada orang nak jumpa pasal kereta cik la..dah lama diorang tunggu macam 30 min dah tu.. immediately i know who they are…the car tower! Or what ever they are called la.. i prepared myself for the worse that there is a tow car waiting to tow my car..came out i didn’t see towing car but 2 indian dude big size just like a thug..one thin and one fat.

The thin fella explain to me that they are from the towing company and now because my car has not been paid for 3 month they need to repossess the car if i am not gonna pay it…then i told them my situation that i could not pay now since i dont have a job and my money is running low..but i will definitely pay once i get some money. Then the thin feela said..ok la macam ni..kami tolong you la ni hari..kami kasih lepas you..you bayar bank bila you ada duit tapi you bagi kita duit juga la sebab kita pun makan gaji juga..now, what is your understanding when someone said that to you?? They want money don’t they?? when he said that you bagi kami duit…. i immediately know he wants to squeeze me..and then i told him..look, i dont have cash now.i cant pay you whatsoever..i have interview going on at this moment and im trying to get a job… but let me make a call first and they said ok…

I know that asking kopi money was wrong and they will get into trouble if they were caught doing  so. So the first thing i did was called Dan and told him they want to take my car and asking me for money..now, as soon as i said that “THEY ASKED ME MONEY” the thin guy face changed and he was panicking and said i didn’t asked you for money..i just told you to pay to the bank and then he have the cheek to say..I as in me emelda DO NOT UNDERSTAND…and he asked me to pass the phone to the big fat dude to talk to Daniel..by the time this fat dude was talking to Daniel..the interviewer came out and asked me..what’s the fuss all about .. “i was so malu ok” and told him that this fella asking me money because i could not pay my car since im not working for how many months already…then the kind manager told them ..she will pay the car,give her one week..”macam dia tau saja ni duit mau masuk in my bank” then he said..leave her now… the two indians dude..left without asking me for money anymore…i guess they takut..but the funny thing was…THEY DENIED IT TO DANIEL… They said..we didnt asked for money but she panicked and talked nonsense and told you we asked for money and my dearest Bf just said..oh ok…sigh…

Anyway, the second round interview went on…of cos, Datuk asked me what was going on and whats the fuss all about… memang malu la..but i have to kasih tebal muka and told him the whole story..he asked me why haven’t i paid..told him i have been out of job for so long..and money is running low..hence why i didn’t pay..i could not concentrate on the interview but it has to go on.. i was given a tough questions…this is not fitness industry job…totally different from my last job..i do not know much about it but i guess i manage to pull some “guns” out specially when i said…. I blog and i have steady visitor everyday…Malaysia itself around 100 to 150 a day and i told them that we once organized SBG 08 and it was a  success just by using internet and bloggers to help promote the event without the media help not until much later”

So i am starting a new job in a week time, job that i have no experience what so ever but im willing to learn although im worried that i could not deliver the result… but i guess what Dan’s said made sense..give it a go… at least there is some pocket money for you to roll till you get your next job…

Sigh…im so hating my situation right now… im so hating yfitness for closing down… its been a year now that i have no steady job… i never live like this before… and definitely never live on few bucks a week…arg..hating the situation!

I know i have a new job already and  i should be happy..but the job comes with big responsibility and of cos im not 100% confident cos i never work in that line before…in my head now, im thinking…can i do it? Can i prove im worthy for that Rmxxxx a month??can i reach the target?? Sighhhhhhhhh…

Oh Dear Lord, please help me….give me the strength and drive to keep pushing and not give up… mayb one day my dream of buying outdoor furniture will come true juga when i can prove to them im worth the Rmxxxx

‘iklan sekejap’

I got this email forwarded to me by a friend of mine. Im not sure how true it is…but if any of you have encountered this, do tell us..

If you look at the first picture, im sure you will be thinking what the hell is wrong with the picture right?? But look at it properly…you will be surprise!

Can you see now?? See the top part of the receipt…..

Table no(ok,nothing unusual)…. No Person(ok)…but RACE??

Shocked??!! Me too… i never knew Pizza hut categorize their patrons by races! Bloody Hell!!

This was the email message that was forwarded to me…

Hello everyone. I have some interesting news.
I was in Pizza Hut (Sunway Pyramid) yesterday and suddenly my friend showed me the bill.
The bill contains normal things la (number of person, bill. number and what is ordered). But, what shocked me is that they had space called ‘ RACE ‘ .I guess since we were all wearing tudung, they labelled us as 0, which means MALAY. Later, when we went to pay…we had no service charge and no tax charge.
Still in shock, I peeped into another bill in the counter. In that bill, under the race space, it was labelled as C (which I guess means  Chinese). That bill had service and tax charges!!!
I started investigating. One of my Sri Lankan friends was labelled as Indian it seems and she also had to pay service and tax charges a few weeks back. What I ‘ m wondering is that…does anyone know about this? I find it rather strange that they charge service and tax charge using race in Pizza Hut, out of all the places!

WE SHOULD NOT GO EAT AT PIZZA HUT!

I agree to the last statement, DO NOT EAT IN PIZZA HUT  if  the above statement is true…

Domino’s rule!!

By the way…pizza hut is not the best diet supplements anyway

WARNING: ANGRY POST AHEAD…WORDS SELECTION CAN BE HURTFUL TO SOME.

I believe you have been through interviews   If you never..then you must be very lucky ..that you got a job without having to go through the crazy procedures.

I personally hate interviews, specially those really formal interview (where no smile allowed, No jokes allowed ,only serious face)…lately my luck of bumping into these stupid interviews kinda flowing in like water…sigh…i felt like i just wasted my time so muchhhhhh…for instance like these ones:

NOTE: I will only tell you the worse one, well at least to me.

Feb 09: Media company in Kelana Jaya

Interviewer: The Company owner

Interview scheduled at 11am..he came in only at 11:45am.  ( I hate waiting) He walked into the interview room and start asking questions,after so much time wasted at the end..not only i felt stupid but i also felt humilated.

1- He didn’t do his job. He basically didnt go through my resume, but just checked my previous job title and company without checking my experience and how long have i been with the company. He even said, oh i thought you have been working with the company for about a year or so when i have clearly i have mentioned it at my resume i have only 5 months experience in Event management.

2-  Next he said im too old to learn new things…people at my age shouldn’t be learning new things anymore but should just stick to what i was doing before (for goodness sake… is there an age limit to gain experience and learn new things?)and that i should just be housewife and care for the house and husband only. Im like WTF!!!Im soooo pissed at his STUPID STATEMENT…i wish i could just tell him… if you dont want to hire me , you shouldn’t have asked me to come all the way here and waste my freaking time!

3-And then he asked me why don’t i try applying in the entertainment industry… Im like..what the hell is wrong with this person?? Asked me to come here and then asked me to go and try entertainment industry pula?? Dah tu, he repeats this over and over and over again….ok, ok..i get the hint! I dont get this freaking job..He should have the balls to just be honest with me..don’t have to waste my time kan?

Guess that is why his company is still at that level despite being in this line for almost 10 years now…padan muka dia!

All in all, not only i wasted my time, petrol and toll money, i felt humilated,angry and irritated, specially when he said im too old to learn new things and his belief that at the age of 27 i shouldn’t be learning new stuff anymore but should just stick to what i was doing or just become a TAI TAI at home! URGGGG…i hate time waster! I guess you know the result, i was not hired. BECAUSE  27 IS TOOOOO OLD TO LEARN NEW THINGS!

March09 : Sport Club in Klang

Interviewer: Sport and recreactional manager( bull dog woman), Hr manager(dumb one) and another manager ( the quiet one)

Interview was suppose to happen at 7pm..everyone was late(the interviewer that is). I didnt know that i have 3 judges in front of me..i thought this would be one on one interview. I never like 3 versus 1 interview or 2 versus 1..i always prefer 1 on 1 interview. More personal and not too intimidating…3 lawan 1, makes me feel like im being interogated by policemen for some crime i did..

This interview, i think talking to a wall is sooooo much better than talking to these clowns…seriously! Let me tell you why…

7:15pm

Hr Manager and Quiet Manager “This nick name suits them very well”

Talking to them is like you playing tennis in a big open court all by yourself and still somehow hoping that the tennis ball will bounce back to you automatically,LOL! Basically what im trying to say here is that the question and answer session was like a dead conversation. It is just one way ticket! Can you imagine how boring is that? And this is coming from a SPORT AND RECREATIONAL CLUB MANAGER AND HR??!!! I guess that tells you why the club is LITERALLY DEAD!

7:30 pm

BULL DOG woman came into the interview room LATE!

She doesnt smile,her face was soo fierce,ense,unfriendly and arrogant and she gives you this feeling “she knows everything and she is the best” She was already 30 min late for the interview , didnt have time to go through my resume but she act like she knows it all and sounding very bossy. Again, may i remind you readers…this is SPORT AND RECREATIONAL CLUB ya… you would expect Sport and recreactional manager to be toned and fit…but hahahahahhahahahahahah..this manager doesnt look anything like sport manager but more like MAKAN sport manager…GEMUK!

Her favourite questions: What is your expected salary and what can you contribute to the company? OK questions, right?

But i want you to imagine this, someone who came in late, didnt have time to read your resume, but act like she knows it all, looked down at you, treat you like you have no experienced in fitness or sport industry which clearly you have ( maybe even more than hers) and gives you this one irritating look that you wish to just pull her eyeballs out from her eye socket…would you like it ? On top of that …love to give you hanging questionaire… how would you react to it?

She asked me the same question( questions above) TWICE in space of  10 mins!

Bull Dog said: About the salary, i saw that you wrote here RMxxxx, what if i say i can’t afford to pay you the amount you asked for?

Me: I understand,  hence why i wrote there, its negotiable.

Bull Dog: So how much are you willing to be paid for if i can’t afford to pay you the amount.

Me: Well, depends on how much can you offer me, i wouldn’t want to say yes without  knowing how much can YOU offer me. ( i smile at her, but in my mind i cant help but think… she really need some sexercise and let that blood flow into her brain again)

Bulldog: Like i said i cant pay you the amount, so how much are you willing to get?? ( sounding irritated)

Me: Well i was hoping that you could put down a price and will see from there and maybe we can negotiate??

“no answer from bulldog”

Me: Rmxxxx would be the min.

Bulldog.silent for while and then asked.

Bull dog: What can you contribute to the company if we bring you in here?

Me: Well, it depends.  What do you mean by contribute. In what ways..sales? Sports? events?management??

“No answer from bulldog so i decided to go on”

I can definitely generate more club revenue by giving you more classes, sports activities, bla bla bla….(of cos i didnt say bla bla bla in interview, malas mau type) This will keep your members active and happy. By doing so, more happy members, more introductions to the club..means more members for us to recruit.

Bulldog woman went silents… she seems to be thinking or processing what i’ve just said to her..maybe she is trying to copy that idea and make it her idea kut…entah la..

Dumb HR and queit Manager turns to asked me questions, again i feel like im playing tennis all alone in an open court without any opponent.  How sad…. “krik, krik, krik”

Suddenly bulldog cuts in the conversation

Bulldog:  So what is your expected salary???

Me: “In my heart” What??!!! Didn’t i just answer dumbo that questions, how irritating is this?? At last i said, well you need to tell me what is the price that you can offer so i can tell you from there.. i can’t be saying RMXXXX but you still cant pay me..why don’t we negotiate and see from there..after all thats what nego is all about.

Bulldog: How about RMxxxx?

Me: Sorry, i wont take that offer as i am worth more than that. ” I have freaking 8 years experience and bulldog only giving me some fresh graduate amount of salary???!!! Would you take it if it was you???”

Bulldog: Since you say you are worth more than that, what can you contribute to the company?

Me: “in my heart”  Is she deaf or just plain dumb?? mannnn she really needs some SEXERCISE……. i am totally irritated at her already…

Me: Erm…i believe i have answer that question ealier on, but maybe you didnt get it. Perhaps you could tell me exactly what do you mean by” what can i contribute to the company?”?  Since it is obvious that my first answer was not the answer that  you looking for…Is it on the sales department?

Bulldog: No….

“Krik, krik, krik”

me: Ok then, since i do not know your club enviroment or members, i would not want to act like some smart pants here and simply change everything….i would stick to my answer earlier on.. i would offer more activities for your members I.E. family day, sports day, more earobic classses with certified instructors so on and so forth. Since this is a SPORT AND RECREATIONAL CLUB… it is only right to have more activities for your members to join and have fun and it should be done at least 3 months once not once a year…”looked at bulldog, trying to hint to the queit manager that she needs to get her fat ass moving and exercising if not sexercising!”

Hr manager nad queit manager: Nods and smile…not to the sexercising part but to my idea of having activities plan all the  time.

At this point..i dont give a damn about the job anymore..i dont care if im politically right or what ever you call it..but i was ready to berperang mulut with this BULLDOG  lady speaking with some stupid slang on…URG!!!

To BULLDOG,

CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! Not only you proved you are one big fat bossy,arrogant manager..but you also prove to me that you are one dumb boss to work with….

Right there and then i told myself..even if they would offer me this job..i would turn them down 100% unless if bulldog is no longer working with that company,i may reconsider. ENOUGH working with THICKOS.

I think checking  what’s Outer Banks rentals about is better than thinking about them now..

19th July 2008 is her anniversary. If she was still alive today, she will be 6 years old now. Brianna was her name.

She was only 6 months old, but she was abused constantly since the day she was born. She was bitten,her fingers and toes were lacerated,she suffered brain hemorrhage,massive bruises and was raped.

On the last day of her life, her parents Stephanie Lopez and Steven Lopez and Uncle Andy Walter tortured her to death. Steven and Andy decided to threw her up to the ceiling and let her slam on the floor and then took turn to to rape her over and over again. While mom Stephanie Lopez decided to bite her from head to toe.

What make thing even more crazier to me was her grandma and uncle who knew all along about this abusive treatment but didnt even moved an inch to help her.

Her parents was only sentence to 18 years jail and the grandma and uncle only get 30 days in jail. Although New Mexico did change the rules after this tragic case took place.

The family didn’t want to claim baby Brianna’s body, instead this was all done by the community, who paid for her casket and burial services. Later baby Brianna family caged her burial ground to prevent the community visiting her grave.

The video hurt me so much that i decided to write this down in my blog. I can’t imagine what baby Brianna went through when she was alive. She  was only a baby, a helpless baby who can only cry but could not defended herself from the Satan parents.

I hope the parents and uncle will rot in jail. No child deserved to be treated like this no matter how stressful it can be.

Stop child abuse.. and if you are not ready to be a parents, you can always opt to let your child be adopted. It’s cruel to say like that..but i rather say it, then letting the child be abused, raped and killed at the end of the day.

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R.I.P Baby Brianna.

Gosh, this is like the fourth time i write,delete and rewrite again this post. I am totally pissed today that nothing come out from my mouth is nice..everything is werid. I find its weird because all i can think of is to cuss and cuss and cuss like no body business!

Ok, call me drama queen, attention seeker,sympathy seeker woman..call me anything you want but read my words here..I DON”T GIVE A HOOT about what you think. I believe if you have gone through what i went through the pass few weeks… i think you will feel and act like me..ok maybe different way because we are totally different individual anyway..still i dont give a hoot about what you think.

I want to tell you people out there..please please please..being a stalker, psycho, story maker or even a copy cat person is NOT COOL..did you read and get that IT’S NOT COOL and it’s not even in a trend!

Stalker:You stalked me thinking that i would fall for you…YOU WERE DEAD WRONG DUDE!! All you get was only me running miles away from you and now you have been blocked from my FB. PADAN MUKA! Like i said..pigi main sendiri di dalam tandas! Ada tangan, ada porno cukup sudah tu kalau gatal sangat!

Story Maker woman:First thing first,let me get this right to my reader… i do not know how true is this story because this is a cerita from Daisy who told me that this woman called WINNIE POO who apparently know me and had been telling Daisy weird things about me and Dan… Now,WINNIE THE POOH, you listen carefully and pay good attention to this…  I don’t give a hoot about what you have told Daisy..i don’t know who you are and DEFINITELY there was never,nada,teda,tidak pernah,i met you in my life! Unless before you were known as  WINNIE THE POOH you have different name! The only WINNIE THE POOH that i know is … the one in the disney channel,YELLOW IN COLOR and carrying pot of honey …yea, if you are that WINNIE THE POOH,yes i’ve seen you but we ARE NOT FRIEND and DEFINITELY NEVER GO CLUBBING TOGETHER BEFORE and NO Daniel never was near you not even an inch or even touch you ok….You can droll over Daniel if you want …but im sure he will not and never do those thing you claim to Daisy. If you are jealous of us…say it right to my BEAUTIFUL FACE not behind my FIT BUM. You are not worth to be even near my bum anyway… Daisy, listen im not saying anything here..but if this woman really exist..please get and show me the picture like you have promise me…and i will hold that promise of yours… i dont like people making story about me or even making up a story just so that they get my attention…ME PANTANG people like this…100%!

Small note for Daniel:Love, what ever is this Winnie up too…I DON’T BELIEVE HER… i know you.

And to everyone who think you can just grab my picture from out of my FB and put it up at your blog as you wish..YOU ARE 100% WRONG. It’s my picture, if you want to take it and use it for your blog or anything like that… please please please..show your respect to the owner of the picture and ask permission. Don’t take friendship for granted,just because we are buddy buddy…there is still a boundary where you can cross and not cross it. I hope i made this LOUD AND CLEAR here.

And to those people who like to follow what me, Daniel or even other people for that matter ( copy cat, thats what we call you) PLEASE STOP FOLLOWING WHAT WE DO…GET YOUR OWN LIFE N IDENTITY!! You really IRK me.I HATE IT WHEN SOMEONE CAN’T FIND THEIR OWN IDENTITY… GO GET A LIFE LA!

STALKER,PSYCHO,STORY MAKER AND COPY CAT..You know where i stand now..so F off!

Hmp! Because of you sick people la i need and should get nc health insurance in case sia pengsan terkejut with your next story of me and my life…tsk tsk tsk…

I am ok,yes but my car door was dented( not too bad but if you look at it clearly you can see small dent on it) and my rim was scracth badly! URG!!! I was soooo upset! My face was so gloomy the whole journey to the office. But i guess at least i am ok as how Dan put it. Sigh…

Oh well, i guess that’s just life.. you win some,you lose some. Anyway,towards the mid day yesterday my luck changed i managed to close 4 deals for the motor show! Wohooooo, happy gila eh! My work is keeping me busy at the moment, but im happy for it. At least i won’t be bored to death and yes i need new challenge anyway….

Today,i have 2 appointment. Long journey for me ( minyak pun banyak kena guna juga ) Tapi apa boleh buat, kerja….

Hmmm i wonder if the guy who bang into my car yesterday was high on drug/alcohol? Maybe i should ask him to enroll himself into drug rehab or alcohol rehab kan? LOL!!

So how was your day today so far?

I do not know how to tell you that i am not interested in you. I do not know how to convey the message to you anymore. Yes thank you for telling me that i am very attractive and sexy,i appreciate that but that doesnt mean i would melt and start falling head over heels for you.

I am not one of those girls that would melt and fall for you just because you tell me im attractive and sexy! NO I AM NOT! I’m worth more than that! Further more, what made you think i would fall for you??? You are bloody married man! Do you know that my parent got seperated because of an AFFAIR too? Do you know how it has effected me? Do you know how it feels going through all the emotional pain that i have to deal with while growing up seeing my mom and dad quarrel all the bloody time!?? Do you know???? You think i would want that to happen to your daughters? NO i don’t ..what i went thru was hell and hell no i don’t want your daughters to go thru the same shit like me!

And now here you are telling me all this bullshit crap like ” belum cuba belum tahu, bila sudah cuba you mesti cakap WOW nak lagi???” WTF,what do you think i am??? FUCK YOU! For all i care, you can go and use your own hand and service yourself..i do not need to be another mistress of yours. I know your wife and kids… i don’t have the guts to even think of having a relationship with you. I would understand if you have divorced your wife but guess what…hello, you are still living under one roof! And again…. i also know your NOW mistress! I would not want to be in her bloody shoe! You may be rich…but seriously i don’t think money can buy me happiness..maybe short time but i think sincere love and respect goes a longggggggggg way than just the money… Btw, if i would love someone just purely because of the money..you think i would choose you??? LOL!!! READ THE WORD HERE…NO, I WONT!  I would choose a DATUK or even a MULTI MILLIONAIRE not just a GM of a company! ARG!! You piece of shit! You really irritate me today..

Because of men like you living in this world… you made all the other men look bad! Urg,go to hell!

P/s: I know this person well, he was my senior in fitness industry… but i have no idea what made his hormone go nuts lately that he has been messaging me in FB saying all nonsense..as far as i know…my profile pic will remain the same…

p/ss: Guys…. just because a person put a sexy profile pic of her up at FB/FS that doesn’t mean she is there to sell herself. Please take note of that and respect your woman friend. Lain la kalau dia kerja dalam bidang pelacuran, that one i would understand!

Yesterday i was out to watch Wall-E with Dan. First thing i notice when i walked into the cinema was 2 malay couples sitting next to us and as soon as i saw them i quickly turn to Dan and said..oh no,not them again.( i had 2 bad experience already whenever they sit next to us!) and Dan quickly responded by saying “call Jais,callJais” which i quickly nudge him.

Not even 3 minute after i got into the cinema,the couple next to me dive into their hornyness and bikin malu action! (kerusi pun belum panas lagi tau!) Sucking each other’s fingers. I kept my cool at first didn’t say or do anything ( i was hoping that they would stop but to my dismay..they didn’t)instead the man covered their body with the woman sweater and started doing the worse thing you could imagine!! They were doing hip thrust movement on the sit and the rest i leave it up to you to imagine la (badan covered, hands inside the sweater and hip thrust movementgoing on, what else could it be?)OH MY GOODNESS!!! And the sucking thumb thingy just got more and more vigorous! I can’t believe this! I am there to catch Wall-e but instead i have to see the MELAYU couple doing their shit! FUCKERS!!

3 minutes into the movie, i soooooooooo wanted to scream at them and throw my popcorn to their face!If it wasn’t for Daniel asking me to calm down..i think there will be another movie to catch in the cinema yesterday! EMELDA TURN INTO INCREDIBLE HULK MOVIE!

I stood up walked out from the cinema ( but i made sure i langgar the couple legs,stepped at the woman feet hard and stayed there bit longer, made it look like im stucked) then i walked out. Complained to the management hoping that the management will do something about it but they didn’t!!Except just stood behind them and stand like a statue( i was even more fumed by now) and to make matter worse i could actually smell the seminal fluids,ARGGGGGG!!! I so wanted to vomit at that time. DISGUSTING!!!

The whole drama didn’t stop till the end of the movie, i tried so hard to ignore these fuckos but it is so hard cos they keep tossing and turning, opening legs every now and then, kissing each other, grobbing and sucking each other fingers!!

Nearly the end of the show, while they were in the act i tapped Daniel’s leg and he lean forward and gave them one good look for few minutes until they realize and stopped completely! Malu-fied to the max..they quickly cabut from the cinema and disappeared!

This is one of the worse honry malay couple that i ever encountered with in  the cinema. CUKUP MEMALUKAN!! Some more pakai tudung yo! Jangan main main….so the SUCI! SUCI MY ASS!

I didnt get to enjoy my movie to be honest, if you asked me what is wall-e all about…i can only answer you this…HORNY tak bermaruah MALAY COUPLE! That was the only thing that stick to my head after the show. How sad..

And yes, im still pissed!

I have nothing againts all my muslim friend but only those minority ones yang tak berpelajaran and takder maruah! Again, kalau dah tau tak boleh tahan kegatalan tu..buka la tudung cik adik..jangan bagi malu to the other muslims.

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