SO TRUE!! HE IS SUCH A PAIN IN THE ASS!!! INFACT I THINK THAT NITE.. SOMEONE STUFFED CACTUS INTO HIS ANUS!  I thought he was my friend but i guess i was wrong on this one, he should have this sticker, sticking on him 24 hours! But then again, i should have known better.. waktu kerja dulu sama dia, ramai juga my colleagues yang lain tell me..he is really cunning and kuat tembirang..i guess now it’s true! Oh well..

Tembirang la kau sebanyak mana..akhirnya..tembirang kaling kau tu akan terpecah keluar juga seperti mana kau tipu sia yang kau akan simpan my secret dulu kan?? TSK TSK TSK.. kau sudah tipu sia sekali.. sia masih terima kau sebagai kawan, now when you said my wedding reception is crappy.. i think that’s a lil too much Mr and i don’t think i can forgive you that fast this time around! As friend i think you should be happy for me and  not coming to my wedding and  bitch about it to another friend of ours and walk away from the dinner reception as soon as we walked in. So insulting i tell you.. no respect langsung! Kalau jeles cakap.. jangan bitch about our wedding to our other friends who was sitting next to you the other day..and if you can’t afford to have garden wedding for your wife.. MAN UP DUDE.. wedding is all about your budget and preference at the end of the day..BUKAN siapa lebih kaya and siapa punya wedding lebih grand! Or telling others that our wedding ceremony should have been this way and that way.. Let me ask you this ,WHO ARE YOU AGAIN???!!  DID YOU CONTRIBUTE ANY THING IN THIS WEDDING? IF NO… shut the fuck up already and MAN UP TO YOUR WIFE and tell her..sorry woman i can’t afford garden wedding like this. We just have to do it in a hotel ballroom!  I mean,you must be hurting and full of envy that nite…. that you turn into such a sour man!

Aiya, ni la ba ni kalau orang yang suka tembirang and menunjuk and inda mau mengaku kalah.. susah!

Hmm…banyak lagi sia mau cakap.. tapi cukup la sampai sini ja ni malam.. sampai sini ja la sia meluahkan geram and sakit hati sia.. marah memanjang pun teda guna juga…

Bagus lagi sia cakap pasal weight loss supplements dari buang karan cakap pasal dia.. bulih lagi sia cari cara macam mana mau lose weight…LOL!

Like i said in the previous post, because of my shout out i posted in facebook..i received an advice from someone whom i have lost contact with for more than 10 years.

We found one another in facebook recently (i think 1 month after i got married) and have added each other into our friend list. All these while, i have only spoken to her twice in facebook. Once to congratulate her on her upcoming (then) wedding and recently wishing her happy birthday. That was the only contact we’ve made over the past 10 years.

And with that two contact we’ve made, she seems to be thinking she knows me very well already. ( well, that’s how i feel..i mean she must be right?? Because she can write me an email and give me an advice… AMPLE advice some more she said, LOL)

I for once won’t and will never give an advice to someone whom i do not know very well , whats more if i don’t know the whole story. I think it’s plain rude to do so and most probably you will only be looking for trouble by offending your friends apalagi kalau you like to go on an ASSUMING MODE! That’s really no good!

Well this dear friend of mine did exactly just that…she send me an advice, going on ASSUMING MODE on the whole situation… and the way she gave me the advice…OMG!! It came across to me, not as an advice but pretty much like someone who has nothing else better to do but just being plain NOSY!

Dear.. ko gaduh ka ngan hubby..if butul ko gaduh geng..
kita isteri yg baik baik gaduh dlm bilik kn..
ample reminder as a good fren..
no hurt feeling kay muah..

That’s exactly what she wrote to me in my FB email….Now if you were me… wouldn’t you be offended with that? What does she meant by “KITA ISTERI YG BAIK BAIK GADUH DLM BILIK KN”??

Is she trying to tell me im no good as a wife??Is she telling me she is a good wife? What and who gave her that idea? Is it because she recently became someone’s wife so she is a good wife now and have the whole idea on how to become a good wife already??

I mean, even if i wanna fight with my husband in public, is that your problem? Even if i wanna scream and shout .. is that your problem? And kalau pun sia mau bernaked in my fb…will that be your issue as well and will give me an advice?

As human, i believe everything has it’s limit… and giving advice not knowing the head and tails of the whole matter is one of them….secondly, if you do not know that person well… that’s already your BIG BIG BIG Sign telling you…BACK OFF! Geez….

If you are wondering did i reply her email back..HELL YEA i did…LOL! Let’s just say her reply back after that …. TYPICAL THEM…..
I’m close minded person, different religion ( what does this gotta do with the whole thing ar?), She met the wrong person( that’s me she referring too) and i am someone who can’t accept advice apparently….

“thinking to myself, won’t everyone react the same way as me kalau you don’t know the person well apalagi bila teda contact for 10 years plus and then out of the blue.. Your friend mau pandai pandai bagi advice and main assume ja the whole situation without knowing head and tails of it??” Kalau kau inda react like me… i salute you la that you can let people “intrude’ your life.

Hmmm… anyway.. i think i need some serious Branson Missouri vacation already la… too much shit crap, nosy people lately in my facebook and i definitely need to delete those people off from my life…… Husband says it will do me good which i agree with that 100% too!

Conversation..yea, everyone does that in daily life.. talk, talk, talk and talk… we can’t live without talking! That’s the fact! If not, no genius will create handphone or even house phone, right? But, nope im not gonna talk about telephone or handphone..but a weird conversation i had…yes, it was so weird to me that it made me think..are they for real or just being plain rude and insensitive?

My weirdest conversation happen when i was sent to Jakarta last june for training. It was lunch time. I was having lunch with 2 colleagues of mine. A girl and a boy. Both of them are younger then me. Rewind few days before the lunch incedent.. let’s name the girl J.

When i met J the first few days, she would not want to come and talk to me much.. i do not know why, but i put that as she is one shy girl. She would pass me by and gave me a quick smile and walk away..day in day out…the most she would ask me “mel, udah makan?” or How are you today mel… and that’s it .. nothing more nothing less. She is just that type of a person to me..doesnt do much talking and a real shy girl..

But all that changed when we had lunch.

You see, J didn’t came down with me to have lunch together..but so happen that there was no empty spot at the canteen and she was sitting all alone…i decided to join her and thought to myself..this will be an opportunity for me to get to know her better. First few minute of the conversation went well, she asked me “normal” questions but that all changed when the male colleague of mine decided to sit with us together….

J: Mel, mel pergi saloon selalu ya?

Me: No la..mel don’t go saloon (beauty parlour) often. Di Malaysia saloon mahal!  Tidak seperti di JKT..

J: Oh iya…tapi kenapa ketiak mel putih??? Mel pakai pemutih ketiak ya??

Me:  Gasp… Dumbfounded… taken aback….

What the hell! What kind of questions is this la??  I do not know how to react to it..be upset? laugh my ass out? or take that as compliment?

Me: I dont use any of those stuff.. i don’t believe in those product.

J: Tapi mel punya ketiak cukup putih…cantik… ketiak J hitam banyak tompokkan..jelek banget dan oleh kerana itu, J malu mau pakai singlet..

At this point, i could see she was actually looking at my armpit and the male colleague turn around and look at it too..OMG!! I was so malu and felt awkward terus ok… so happen on that day i was wearing sleeves top!!!i seriously do not know how to reply her back..

Thank goodness the male colleague of mine cut in and sort of stop the conversation…

He said: I think mel do not shave her armpit hair but instead she pluck it out..hence why  she do not have that razor bumps on her armpit-

Me: ‘Nod”

ask myself…she’s watching my armpit all this while???? WHY, WHEN and HOW?

J: ok….continue eating her lunch as if nothing happen…

I tell you that was one of the worse conversation i ever had in my whole life..dah la  I do not know her well, she asked me over lunch pula tu and it have to take place in front of a male collague whom i just get to know too!! OMG!!!

It really made me feel awkward… malu-fied ( yes, i was malufied ok) and geez… of cos offended!

I know she didn’t talk bad or meant ill towards me ..tapi .. takkan la kau tanya that kind of question to someone whom you just met like few days ago kan? Lagi lagi kalau tu orang kau punya manager and sort of your club guest…kalau dia tanya sia when im alone,  i don’t mind at all tapi… ni depan lelaki ba..astaga!!! Pengsan!

Btw, apparently she watched me whenever i lift my hands up to tie my hair  or while im working out!

Here’s some tips that might help,  if you are facing the same problem as J.  Good luck!

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I feel like i just ran through a steel buildings after the training today… urg..i hate that feeling, the feeling of being helpless, worried and not to mention emotionally hurt.

I was disappointed with the whole training session today, specially the morning session.   The more i get to know the team here.. the more worried i am. sigh.. i really feel like im in the Grid iron movie. The team lack of team spirit, respect and demotivated. Not to mention attitude issue.. sigh.  Everyone came to training with their own issue…

Although deep down in me, i am telling myself to hang on, be patience but other part of me.. irritated, getting emo and at the same time..feel sad to these trainers.

I wish i was given more time to get to know them better, at least training wont be so tough ( that’s how i think la) Breaking the ice with these trainer is so hard..specially when EGO is involved. They think that they are superb and don’t need anymore follow up training..sigh.

Oh well, i pray that i will be strong and lots of patience.

I wonder what else can i do to motivate these people, change their attitude and start respecting themselves? I see they have sooo much potential in them but the attitude covers all their good qualities. I wish they can see that in themselves.

I can’t afford to gain anymore weight.. kalau inda susah la sia mau kasih percaya orang yg sia ni rapid result training development coach for celebrity fitness and im gonna face the whole team tomorrow..adeh segan pula sia.. all my team semua fit fit ni..sia saja yg hmm lembik pressure betul..

Anyhow.. this is my second week working with celebrity fitness Malaysia.. so far so good.. i hope everything will go well.. i hope training will go smoothly and all trainers ok..i have not seen them in person yet  but i will tmrw. First step, is to get to know them, get some fedback before i proceed with the training… im still kinda lost with my new work, but im sure i will be ok once i get used to the system and all.

The only thing that im still trying to get used to even after 8 years in this industry is ..WAKING UP early in the morning!!!! ARGGGGGGGGGGG!!! Im sooooooooo not a morning person… sigh. Every morning i could hear Dan’s cheerful voice greeting me.. and here i am greeting him back with my grumpy voice..i would lay in bed as long as i can before i drag my butt out to the shower room..kalau sia masih budak kecil lagi now..im sure i would have cried and throw pillows on the floor showing my tantrum in the morning…LOL! Yea, yea..i’m a spoil brat…. but hey.. i never actually had the luxury to sleep in till late in the morning ok since i was 7 years old… day in day out..5:30am sharp, i have to wake up and go for my swimming training sudah..only now after leaving Sabah and stay on my own..sia dapat that luxury..tapi tu pun bukan all the time. sob sob.. i cant lay in bed the whole day cos i have 1 big baby to jaga..and another one fury lil cute thing waiting for me t greet her in the morning. Hey..jadi perempuan ni susah juga kan?? Kenapa la lelaki inda bulih jadi pregnant ar?? kan baik kalau diorang boleh..mungkin they will be bit more sensitive kan?? wahahah ..totally out of topic ni ni hari..

Hmm..ba ok la.. cukup la sia merepek inda tentu pasal today.. im too tired ba ni.but i have tonnes of assignment menunggu untuk di clear kan dalam inbox sia..so baik sia merepek daripada duit sia terbang!!!

Ba ok la..nite nite everyone!

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I forgot my handphone back in my apartment..decided to asked the taxi driver to make a u turn and drive me back to the apartment. To my surprise ..he was very unhappy about it..he even sigh loudly showing his “happiness” to me.. i thought that was really rude of him.

Exactly 10:45am, after leaving my apartment again…he made a big bang sound in the car..i was shocked, he was hitting his stering wheel few times and started cursing! I thought that was really really rude of him to do so.. i wanted to asked him is everything ok when suddenly…i saw this…

I  was stunt, scared and panicked! I thought it was a riot and at that point suddenly the image of my mom, dan and gummi flashed in my head..i thought im gonna be gone in that  sea of people and motor bikers….

Not until the cab driver started saying..this is why i was rushing just now..i wanted to escape from this crowd..its Jakarta election day tomorrow and today is the last day for the supporter to do their campaign…i was relief upon hearing that news…but still not good enough to make my nerve calm down. Along the way to FX mall, i was really alert of my surrounding..i was really worry that  a riot might just start out of nowhere…

You will understand it if you were in my shoe..LOL! In Malaysia, campaign was not done this way..so that really my first… my cab was surrounded by bikers..with flags.. small placard.. music blasting  from the bike saying UNDILA SBY ( something like that) and the whole bikers came with coordinated t-shirt colors! OMG..to me it really look like a riot and im stuck right in the middle of it! My heart beat was racing..seriously! And to calm myself down..i texted Daniel..but unfortunately..Dan being Dan…he replied to me in a very naughty way…LOL!!

The 15min rides turn to be 45 minutes cab ride for me..and i dont have to mentioned la how much teh cab cost me on that day…LOL! It was a BOMB! LOL!!

Apparently, the traffic jam and the campaigner will go even more crazier towards the evening…. there will be more supporters on the road.. more cars.. more bikers ..more buses..all transporting the supporters to the stadium next to FX mall…and that’s exactly what happen in the evening… but to the locals… this was nothing! It used to be even MORE crazier…. “gasp”

This was around 3-4pm in the evening…pictures was taken from the gym lounge area.

And this was around 5pm….

I was thankful to God that nothing bad happen that day.. jakarta was safe although to me.. that could just start something nasty and that was one of  my most unforgetable experience while being in Jakarta

Do you know that apedixin, fenphedra among others is a natural appetite suppressants? Apparently they are the best in diet pills in the market now… hmmm…..there’s even a pill that can make you loose weight and at the same time increase the size of a women’s breast! How crazy is that?? LOL! i don’t mind trying that one …hahahaha…as long as the size doesnt go to Pamela Anderson size la…i think i can handle it…wahahahhaha.

Anyway, back to the real post..enough crazy stuff..i dont need diet pills anyway..i just need to workout. LOL!

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Have you ever wonder where have all your friends gone too? What happen to them, where they are now, how are they doing and all?

I Do…i wonder where have all my “friends” gone too… it’s like they have vanished into thin air..although, occasionally i do bumped onto them in the mall…but thats about it…they dont make an effort to call, dont make and effort to turn up to any of the function that i invited them to go…nothing! I wonder should i call them to my wedding when i get married? Are they worth the pain and money??

“Pain= to remember their names, Money= sending the invitation card and not to mention the dinner course on the wedding day”

It’s very disappointing and not to mention PAINFUL to know that we were once very close but now its more like out of sight, out of mind friendship.  I’ve made an effort to call them…to catch up with them..but it seems like..im the only one who is keeping up with the effort,..i am the only one who gets excited whenever i bumped onto them in the mall.Sigh.

I really wonder what made them change, is it because im not married yet?  Is it because i do not have kids yet? Is it because im no longer needed or is it because i am not marrying someone rich and famous and my circle of friends  is not from the famous people group? WHAT IS IT??

Geez…sometimes i can’t help but wonder…what was the friendship based on in the first place….SICK i tell you.

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Stupid Monday!! Yea, that’s what i will call today..STUPID MONDAY!

First of all i didnt had a good weekend… it was a shitty weekend..don’t asked why i dont want to talk about it because talking about it will just ignite my anger and hatred and seriously even if i  talk about it…it will just freaking waste my time!!

And then came today the Stupid Monday…early in the morning i received an email from an unknown lady saying that i BETRAYED her because i didnt turn up for the meeting that we both had agreed on last sunday. I apparently just didn’t bothered to show up because the price she has offered  to buy some product from mudah.com did not meet my expectation..im like HUH?? What the fuck?? I didn’t even agreed on selling my stuff to her in the first place..i only sent her an email last night saying that i have sold that particular product  earlier and have deleted the advertisement the same day she asked me for the discount…how can i arranged and appointment with  her pula on Sunday when the product has been sold??  Stupid Fool!  Anyway, i replied to her email telling her she must have gotten the wrong person and we definitely did not make any arrangement to meet up on SUNDAY..and explained to her that we only kept in touch once and that was when i sent her the email thanking her for showing interest in my product and told her that it was sold to someone else already.  Sigh.. at the end..she realized it..she sent me an apology email…tsk tsk tsk…kan sia kena marah for no darn reason?? EARLY IN THE MORNING??

Then i went for an interview today at shah alam sec 16..while waiting for the interview to begin ( second interview with the Datuk) came the security gurad of the company telling me..cik ada orang nak jumpa pasal kereta cik la..dah lama diorang tunggu macam 30 min dah tu.. immediately i know who they are…the car tower! Or what ever they are called la.. i prepared myself for the worse that there is a tow car waiting to tow my car..came out i didn’t see towing car but 2 indian dude big size just like a thug..one thin and one fat.

The thin fella explain to me that they are from the towing company and now because my car has not been paid for 3 month they need to repossess the car if i am not gonna pay it…then i told them my situation that i could not pay now since i dont have a job and my money is running low..but i will definitely pay once i get some money. Then the thin feela said..ok la macam ni..kami tolong you la ni hari..kami kasih lepas you..you bayar bank bila you ada duit tapi you bagi kita duit juga la sebab kita pun makan gaji juga..now, what is your understanding when someone said that to you?? They want money don’t they?? when he said that you bagi kami duit…. i immediately know he wants to squeeze me..and then i told him..look, i dont have cash now.i cant pay you whatsoever..i have interview going on at this moment and im trying to get a job… but let me make a call first and they said ok…

I know that asking kopi money was wrong and they will get into trouble if they were caught doing  so. So the first thing i did was called Dan and told him they want to take my car and asking me for money..now, as soon as i said that “THEY ASKED ME MONEY” the thin guy face changed and he was panicking and said i didn’t asked you for money..i just told you to pay to the bank and then he have the cheek to say..I as in me emelda DO NOT UNDERSTAND…and he asked me to pass the phone to the big fat dude to talk to Daniel..by the time this fat dude was talking to Daniel..the interviewer came out and asked me..what’s the fuss all about .. “i was so malu ok” and told him that this fella asking me money because i could not pay my car since im not working for how many months already…then the kind manager told them ..she will pay the car,give her one week..”macam dia tau saja ni duit mau masuk in my bank” then he said..leave her now… the two indians dude..left without asking me for money anymore…i guess they takut..but the funny thing was…THEY DENIED IT TO DANIEL… They said..we didnt asked for money but she panicked and talked nonsense and told you we asked for money and my dearest Bf just said..oh ok…sigh…

Anyway, the second round interview went on…of cos, Datuk asked me what was going on and whats the fuss all about… memang malu la..but i have to kasih tebal muka and told him the whole story..he asked me why haven’t i paid..told him i have been out of job for so long..and money is running low..hence why i didn’t pay..i could not concentrate on the interview but it has to go on.. i was given a tough questions…this is not fitness industry job…totally different from my last job..i do not know much about it but i guess i manage to pull some “guns” out specially when i said…. I blog and i have steady visitor everyday…Malaysia itself around 100 to 150 a day and i told them that we once organized SBG 08 and it was a  success just by using internet and bloggers to help promote the event without the media help not until much later”

So i am starting a new job in a week time, job that i have no experience what so ever but im willing to learn although im worried that i could not deliver the result… but i guess what Dan’s said made sense..give it a go… at least there is some pocket money for you to roll till you get your next job…

Sigh…im so hating my situation right now… im so hating yfitness for closing down… its been a year now that i have no steady job… i never live like this before… and definitely never live on few bucks a week…arg..hating the situation!

I know i have a new job already and  i should be happy..but the job comes with big responsibility and of cos im not 100% confident cos i never work in that line before…in my head now, im thinking…can i do it? Can i prove im worthy for that Rmxxxx a month??can i reach the target?? Sighhhhhhhhh…

Oh Dear Lord, please help me….give me the strength and drive to keep pushing and not give up… mayb one day my dream of buying outdoor furniture will come true juga when i can prove to them im worth the Rmxxxx

‘iklan sekejap’

I had an early start today

Woke up at 8am. Did my house chores, Sweep and mopped the floor, did my laundry, fed gummi, clean her “toilet” tray, Clean her eyes ( yes, i need to do this every morning. She is suffering from dry eyes ) and lit few home frangrance oil around the house…and now, the house smelling real good..me likey!

I was suppose to do my workout yesterday but Dan said postpone it to today..he was so tired from work ..wait rephrase that again. He was so tired the whole day yesterday because he woke up at 3am to watch football game and could not go back to sleep after that..so he end up sighing, tossing and turning in bed for 2 hours! Which of cos,irritate me a few time sebab everytime he turn, whole bed bergoyang! (I’m a light sleeper)

Dah tu, the past 2 days pun i didn’t have peaceful sleep cos on Monday..kuat sangat angin here in Shah Alam..my wind chime was was making so much of sound that it not only woke me up but scare the hell out of me..macam taufan pula sia rasa and then i have to come outside to save Daniel’s pants from flying to the ground floor. Not only i got wet..i went to sleep with the hujan juga…LOL! Malas sudah mau lap badan..tidur terus.

On Tuesday..just as i was about to go into deep sleep,suddenly i hear this loud crashing/banging sound coming from the next room(i thought it was from the next room). I panicked!! U know how it feels like to be awaken by loud sound and you are so disorientated  that you just couldn’t think what to do or what to think? Yes, that’s exactly how i was last Tuesday, i woke up and sat on my bed for few second and think “shit that’s it, someone is in the house!”  then again  “don’t be silly Emelda, you are on the 12th floor how in the world can someone come in into the house?”  Dengan mata separuh buka..i open our bedroom window, peep to the next room,close my window back land on my pillow and went straight to my sleep…bagus kan me? LOL!!

While drifting back to my la la land…i still can hear that loud crashing and bangin sound..i can hear them talking… and every now and then i can hear their footsteps then it hit me …..that’s actually my neighbour argueing in the wee morning….

Laaaaaaaaaa…. buang tidur sia saja…

My top floor neigbour have this weird habits..diorang ni suka berlari-lari di tengah tengah malam buta around the house ..love to drag furnitures around , love their toilet so much that they have to visit the loo like every few minutes ( i can hear the door goes..krik,kruk,krik,kruk) How irritating is that???!!! To make matter much more interesting… you can hear all this activity loud and clear only in our MASTER BEDROOM everytime after 10pm, arggggggg!! I so wanna shoot my neighbours ass!!

I dont know who is occupaying that top floor though..cos all this while i only hear adults voice talking but never kids voice..but that running around and dragging furniture/things around the house sounded like small kids doing..hmmm..interesting..could it be them the adults? Transformed themselves into kids everytimes after 10pm?? Maybe, maybe…..itu sebab they can’t think kan?? LOL! LOL! LOL!

Whatever it is..i wish i have a better neighbour than the current one

Hmm..ba ok la..i got to go..have a nice day peeps.

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I got this email forwarded to me by a friend of mine. Im not sure how true it is…but if any of you have encountered this, do tell us..

If you look at the first picture, im sure you will be thinking what the hell is wrong with the picture right?? But look at it properly…you will be surprise!

Can you see now?? See the top part of the receipt…..

Table no(ok,nothing unusual)…. No Person(ok)…but RACE??

Shocked??!! Me too… i never knew Pizza hut categorize their patrons by races! Bloody Hell!!

This was the email message that was forwarded to me…

Hello everyone. I have some interesting news.
I was in Pizza Hut (Sunway Pyramid) yesterday and suddenly my friend showed me the bill.
The bill contains normal things la (number of person, bill. number and what is ordered). But, what shocked me is that they had space called ‘ RACE ‘ .I guess since we were all wearing tudung, they labelled us as 0, which means MALAY. Later, when we went to pay…we had no service charge and no tax charge.
Still in shock, I peeped into another bill in the counter. In that bill, under the race space, it was labelled as C (which I guess means  Chinese). That bill had service and tax charges!!!
I started investigating. One of my Sri Lankan friends was labelled as Indian it seems and she also had to pay service and tax charges a few weeks back. What I ‘ m wondering is that…does anyone know about this? I find it rather strange that they charge service and tax charge using race in Pizza Hut, out of all the places!

WE SHOULD NOT GO EAT AT PIZZA HUT!

I agree to the last statement, DO NOT EAT IN PIZZA HUT  if  the above statement is true…

Domino’s rule!!

By the way…pizza hut is not the best diet supplements anyway

Yup, we join the earth hour this year. Did you??  We were at home during the earth hour, didn’t join the crowd at The Curve or Sunway ( although i wanted too..but Dan malas mau keluar so we stayed home instead).

8:30pm there was no radio, no tv, no lights but just the candles flickering in our living room. But that didn’t bore us, in fact we had so much fun during the dark hour.

We not only had our mini concert ( Dan was the guitarist and lead singer, me the backup dancer), flashing flash light to the passing KTM(im sure those people who saw us last night think we are nuts) but we also manage to take few photos of each other…LOL!!!

Here take a look at it

Gummi was our first “victim” of the night. She was lost with the whole drama..wondering why are we chasing her around the house with the flash light and the camera and that’s her version of scary pose. LOL!

Scared Dan or a scary momo?? Which one you think?

And me, Jeng, jeng, jeng,…

Me myself  pun takut tengok my face…hahahahahh..all i need is kain putih and some red color contact lenses and i can be your scariest momo!!

LOL…that was how we “celebrated” the dark hour yesterday.

Side track sekejap, have you ever been to any cruises before? If yes, how was it?? Fun??Tell me, i wanna know.

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WARNING: ANGRY POST AHEAD…WORDS SELECTION CAN BE HURTFUL TO SOME.

I believe you have been through interviews   If you never..then you must be very lucky ..that you got a job without having to go through the crazy procedures.

I personally hate interviews, specially those really formal interview (where no smile allowed, No jokes allowed ,only serious face)…lately my luck of bumping into these stupid interviews kinda flowing in like water…sigh…i felt like i just wasted my time so muchhhhhh…for instance like these ones:

NOTE: I will only tell you the worse one, well at least to me.

Feb 09: Media company in Kelana Jaya

Interviewer: The Company owner

Interview scheduled at 11am..he came in only at 11:45am.  ( I hate waiting) He walked into the interview room and start asking questions,after so much time wasted at the end..not only i felt stupid but i also felt humilated.

1- He didn’t do his job. He basically didnt go through my resume, but just checked my previous job title and company without checking my experience and how long have i been with the company. He even said, oh i thought you have been working with the company for about a year or so when i have clearly i have mentioned it at my resume i have only 5 months experience in Event management.

2-  Next he said im too old to learn new things…people at my age shouldn’t be learning new things anymore but should just stick to what i was doing before (for goodness sake… is there an age limit to gain experience and learn new things?)and that i should just be housewife and care for the house and husband only. Im like WTF!!!Im soooo pissed at his STUPID STATEMENT…i wish i could just tell him… if you dont want to hire me , you shouldn’t have asked me to come all the way here and waste my freaking time!

3-And then he asked me why don’t i try applying in the entertainment industry… Im like..what the hell is wrong with this person?? Asked me to come here and then asked me to go and try entertainment industry pula?? Dah tu, he repeats this over and over and over again….ok, ok..i get the hint! I dont get this freaking job..He should have the balls to just be honest with me..don’t have to waste my time kan?

Guess that is why his company is still at that level despite being in this line for almost 10 years now…padan muka dia!

All in all, not only i wasted my time, petrol and toll money, i felt humilated,angry and irritated, specially when he said im too old to learn new things and his belief that at the age of 27 i shouldn’t be learning new stuff anymore but should just stick to what i was doing or just become a TAI TAI at home! URGGGG…i hate time waster! I guess you know the result, i was not hired. BECAUSE  27 IS TOOOOO OLD TO LEARN NEW THINGS!

March09 : Sport Club in Klang

Interviewer: Sport and recreactional manager( bull dog woman), Hr manager(dumb one) and another manager ( the quiet one)

Interview was suppose to happen at 7pm..everyone was late(the interviewer that is). I didnt know that i have 3 judges in front of me..i thought this would be one on one interview. I never like 3 versus 1 interview or 2 versus 1..i always prefer 1 on 1 interview. More personal and not too intimidating…3 lawan 1, makes me feel like im being interogated by policemen for some crime i did..

This interview, i think talking to a wall is sooooo much better than talking to these clowns…seriously! Let me tell you why…

7:15pm

Hr Manager and Quiet Manager “This nick name suits them very well”

Talking to them is like you playing tennis in a big open court all by yourself and still somehow hoping that the tennis ball will bounce back to you automatically,LOL! Basically what im trying to say here is that the question and answer session was like a dead conversation. It is just one way ticket! Can you imagine how boring is that? And this is coming from a SPORT AND RECREATIONAL CLUB MANAGER AND HR??!!! I guess that tells you why the club is LITERALLY DEAD!

7:30 pm

BULL DOG woman came into the interview room LATE!

She doesnt smile,her face was soo fierce,ense,unfriendly and arrogant and she gives you this feeling “she knows everything and she is the best” She was already 30 min late for the interview , didnt have time to go through my resume but she act like she knows it all and sounding very bossy. Again, may i remind you readers…this is SPORT AND RECREATIONAL CLUB ya… you would expect Sport and recreactional manager to be toned and fit…but hahahahahhahahahahahah..this manager doesnt look anything like sport manager but more like MAKAN sport manager…GEMUK!

Her favourite questions: What is your expected salary and what can you contribute to the company? OK questions, right?

But i want you to imagine this, someone who came in late, didnt have time to read your resume, but act like she knows it all, looked down at you, treat you like you have no experienced in fitness or sport industry which clearly you have ( maybe even more than hers) and gives you this one irritating look that you wish to just pull her eyeballs out from her eye socket…would you like it ? On top of that …love to give you hanging questionaire… how would you react to it?

She asked me the same question( questions above) TWICE in space of  10 mins!

Bull Dog said: About the salary, i saw that you wrote here RMxxxx, what if i say i can’t afford to pay you the amount you asked for?

Me: I understand,  hence why i wrote there, its negotiable.

Bull Dog: So how much are you willing to be paid for if i can’t afford to pay you the amount.

Me: Well, depends on how much can you offer me, i wouldn’t want to say yes without  knowing how much can YOU offer me. ( i smile at her, but in my mind i cant help but think… she really need some sexercise and let that blood flow into her brain again)

Bulldog: Like i said i cant pay you the amount, so how much are you willing to get?? ( sounding irritated)

Me: Well i was hoping that you could put down a price and will see from there and maybe we can negotiate??

“no answer from bulldog”

Me: Rmxxxx would be the min.

Bulldog.silent for while and then asked.

Bull dog: What can you contribute to the company if we bring you in here?

Me: Well, it depends.  What do you mean by contribute. In what ways..sales? Sports? events?management??

“No answer from bulldog so i decided to go on”

I can definitely generate more club revenue by giving you more classes, sports activities, bla bla bla….(of cos i didnt say bla bla bla in interview, malas mau type) This will keep your members active and happy. By doing so, more happy members, more introductions to the club..means more members for us to recruit.

Bulldog woman went silents… she seems to be thinking or processing what i’ve just said to her..maybe she is trying to copy that idea and make it her idea kut…entah la..

Dumb HR and queit Manager turns to asked me questions, again i feel like im playing tennis all alone in an open court without any opponent.  How sad…. “krik, krik, krik”

Suddenly bulldog cuts in the conversation

Bulldog:  So what is your expected salary???

Me: “In my heart” What??!!! Didn’t i just answer dumbo that questions, how irritating is this?? At last i said, well you need to tell me what is the price that you can offer so i can tell you from there.. i can’t be saying RMXXXX but you still cant pay me..why don’t we negotiate and see from there..after all thats what nego is all about.

Bulldog: How about RMxxxx?

Me: Sorry, i wont take that offer as i am worth more than that. ” I have freaking 8 years experience and bulldog only giving me some fresh graduate amount of salary???!!! Would you take it if it was you???”

Bulldog: Since you say you are worth more than that, what can you contribute to the company?

Me: “in my heart”  Is she deaf or just plain dumb?? mannnn she really needs some SEXERCISE……. i am totally irritated at her already…

Me: Erm…i believe i have answer that question ealier on, but maybe you didnt get it. Perhaps you could tell me exactly what do you mean by” what can i contribute to the company?”?  Since it is obvious that my first answer was not the answer that  you looking for…Is it on the sales department?

Bulldog: No….

“Krik, krik, krik”

me: Ok then, since i do not know your club enviroment or members, i would not want to act like some smart pants here and simply change everything….i would stick to my answer earlier on.. i would offer more activities for your members I.E. family day, sports day, more earobic classses with certified instructors so on and so forth. Since this is a SPORT AND RECREATIONAL CLUB… it is only right to have more activities for your members to join and have fun and it should be done at least 3 months once not once a year…”looked at bulldog, trying to hint to the queit manager that she needs to get her fat ass moving and exercising if not sexercising!”

Hr manager nad queit manager: Nods and smile…not to the sexercising part but to my idea of having activities plan all the  time.

At this point..i dont give a damn about the job anymore..i dont care if im politically right or what ever you call it..but i was ready to berperang mulut with this BULLDOG  lady speaking with some stupid slang on…URG!!!

To BULLDOG,

CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! Not only you proved you are one big fat bossy,arrogant manager..but you also prove to me that you are one dumb boss to work with….

Right there and then i told myself..even if they would offer me this job..i would turn them down 100% unless if bulldog is no longer working with that company,i may reconsider. ENOUGH working with THICKOS.

I think checking  what’s Outer Banks rentals about is better than thinking about them now..

U must be wondering why am i giving you that cheeky look kan??

Keep looking at the picture..im sure you can spot them….Don’t worry there won’t be any scary faces popping out of no where on my screen

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Still can’t get it?? Ok, Ok…take a look a this one pula….can u see now??

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Still can’t see it? Wanna have a closer look a the pic??

Warning: Please ensure that there is no one behind you while checking this pic out  and you may need to cover your mouth before scrolling down further

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JENG ….JENG…..JENG!!!

TADAAAAAAAAAAA!!!

Happy Mcdonald’s everyone!

Tips for the lady:

1. If you are wearing super low cut jeans and having high butt crack or line what ever you call it…please DO NOT SIT NEXT TO THE WINDOW panel unless you don’t mind the whole world to see your happy butt too!

2. Before you leave your house, always check your self again in the mirror. Pretend that you are trying to sit on a chair. By doing this, at least u can still change into another outfit if its showing too much of happy butt or at least bring along a pashmeena with you. Remember, only you can save yourself , no one else can….

Unless u want to achieve this look!!! YUCK!

If it was me..seriously..i would just leave her there all on her own…memalukan saja…and only comes back to her when she have her brain back ..i dont have the patience to deal with this kind of people..seriously..this is so memalukan ok… everyone is looking at her drama!

She missed her flight to i have no idea where..but instead of dealing it like a matured lady should (which she is) she act like a 2 years old kid whose lollipop has been taken away from her!!! Screaming hysterically,Rolling on floor,banging table  and cry like a baby!! Eeeeeeeeeee..apa la….

GILA!!!

Thank God..non of my family members is like this…phew!

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I found this video at youtube today, i think its really funny and decided to share it here with you.

I know some female driver do drive like this….i have seen a lot of them here in K-hell,LOL!!  They are crazyyyyyyy ok..like really crazyyyyyy.

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Type 1: Doesn’t know how to use the rear mirror, side mirror and her indication light…worse malas pula tu mau pakai kepala dia to pandang tepi..main potong jalan saja…CELAKA!

Type 2:  This one still stuck in her fantasy world. She thinks that ladies first rules still applicable on the road.  She will use her rear mirror and side mirror, turn her indication light on and then move in to the other land without thinking of the other driver distance. Ladies first, remember?? Oh and yes… even if the other driver is a lady..she doesnt give a damn about her…

Type 3: Ni suka main tengah, LOL! ( somehow that doesn’t sound so rite) But anyway, yea..she just love to be in the middle, neither here nor there. She can’t decide which lane she want to use… and when you honk her.. she’ll turn her head around and still asked you to her a minute to decide… URG… irritating!

Type 4:  Trip F1 driver….have you seen this one?? Geez…..potong sana sini macam lipas kudung..yes don’t be surprise ada juga perempuan drive macam ni..not only men.

Type 5:  Driving on fast lane but she is going 40km per hour….usually this one is aunty… honk her few times baru mau pi the other lane..tu pun kau mau tunggu….sebab she drive really slow…aiyoooooo.

Type 6: She’s in love with her brake paddle…every few second she’ll hit her brake pad. Stupid!

I can go on and on about  female driver here in k-hell but i think i’ll let the rest done by you… have you seen any in your place?

p/s: I know i am a lady too…but hey at least i don’t drive like the above mentioned. ;P

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OMG…i nearly died laughing while watching this video! This is even more crazier than i ken lee video… i wonder what Mariah Carey would think if she ever come across this clip…LOL! Leonard thanks for posting this video up at Facebook..it made my day yesterday.

Listen to him sing and see his hand and body movement guys…hahahahaha i cannot tahan la…this video beat I KEN LEE video 100% , LOL! And that bulu ketiak,OMG BIDA ohhhhhhhhh…

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“Touch my body,don’t you love my cock?” ROFL…hahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

Have a great day ahead guys, hope you enjoyed that clip

P/s: I got a job interview this coming Friday..wish me all the best peep..pray for me ok?

P/ss: Nick, any tips for me? Since this is an advertising and event company

p/sss: Hey, check this out Flowering trees site… cantik la the bunga there…if only i have big space and hugeeee garden here..i am definitely one of their customer sudah..cantik oh

Hi All,

OK i have something  to share with you all but before i go ahead with it ..i just want to tell you all that if you have left comments on my blog from the 16th till the 18th Jan and wondering why your comments do not appear on my blog..it is because we( me and Dan) moved our domain to other domain and throughout the process, it did not record and appear straight at our comment column but it appeared only at our email. We did not delete your message  but what we did was we copied  your comments and paste it at the comment box..please check and read it there k..   Thanks

Ba hope that’s clear already..and now let me get back to my Christmas celebration story.

For the first time during Christmas celebration, i went to the meat market( ok, i don’t celebrate Christmas before i met Dan..so i dont need to go to wet market nor during the normal usual days…i can get whatever i want in hypermarket so pasar daging memang tidak pernah pigi..i don’t even know mana pasar in KL or PJ,LOL!)  in Klang..erm sia inda ingat the pasar name but i know its in klang la.

As soon as we sampai the pasar daging..first thing i saw was this, i was so shocked,geli,takut and kesian pun ada..

The kambing heads! I  have no idea what are they doing there, being displayed like that??!! What makes me feel even more geli and takut was that they do not even bother to close the goats eyes! They were WIDE OPEN and if you look into the eyes long enough..you could almost feel like the kambing is looking at you and trying to tell you “stuff” you know… isk, maybe sia tengok/ read too much of ghost stories..but eeeee..seriously..that kambing eyes is so menakutkan ok and again, why do they need to display the kepala like that???

And then i saw this..

Tu ekor la ba kan diorang kasih tinggal…what is this a fashion/trend in the daging market?

Now,look at the tukang potong daging..kau inda takut ka tengok dia punya muka? Can you imagine, he is looking at me with the parang in his hand? Seriously..this is not candid..but he is actually looking at me when i was taking this shot..and that was how he “pose” ..eeeeeee bikin takut!

Anyway, nothing unwanted incident happen on that day..we left that place safe and sound ( of cos la, we bought like few hundreds ringgit worth of daging  from him..memang la that kedai owner happy and the tukang potong daging man inda kejar we all with his parang) but if you ask me to go back there again by myself…NO WAY, NO WAY i will go back to that place again..not with all the kepala kambing being displayed like that, that ekor ( ok, the ekor boleh lagi accept) and that weird  looking face man..( although im sure he is not mentally ill person).  “Brrrr”

Oh well… that was my first experience in pasar daging here in Klang…more like in MALAYSIA.  Yes, i never went to any daging market with heads being displayed ok..i don’t even remember that kind of thing exist in Sabah.. or maybe they do? Hmmmm..do they have animal kepala being displayed at the daging market peeps, ada ka?

eee..menakutkan.

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It’s Friday , so time to chill..its guess who time!

Can you guess this polish chicken look like who?

Hint: His an actor, singer and a producer. Born 8th Jan 1947.

I can bring you back to the future…who am i?

I’m a  famous designer. Who am i?

You hear my voice in the radio, you see me in Oprah.. i give the best advice to Britney Spear   and i smile just like the Walrus! who am i?

Oh common, you should know this one..the famous lips.

Everyone talk about my clothing fashion style, hair and MONEY. Look into my eye or the falcor nostril i believe you can guess who am i..:D

I talk crap all the time… i look like the chimpanzee and im  honored that someone throw their shoe at me at my recent visit to—-who am i?

Christmas is just around the corner…yeaaaaaaa!! And i can hear the treadmills belt sound already in my ear telling me to get back to my workout regime  right after the Holiday..aisehhhhhhh.

19th July 2008 is her anniversary. If she was still alive today, she will be 6 years old now. Brianna was her name.

She was only 6 months old, but she was abused constantly since the day she was born. She was bitten,her fingers and toes were lacerated,she suffered brain hemorrhage,massive bruises and was raped.

On the last day of her life, her parents Stephanie Lopez and Steven Lopez and Uncle Andy Walter tortured her to death. Steven and Andy decided to threw her up to the ceiling and let her slam on the floor and then took turn to to rape her over and over again. While mom Stephanie Lopez decided to bite her from head to toe.

What make thing even more crazier to me was her grandma and uncle who knew all along about this abusive treatment but didnt even moved an inch to help her.

Her parents was only sentence to 18 years jail and the grandma and uncle only get 30 days in jail. Although New Mexico did change the rules after this tragic case took place.

The family didn’t want to claim baby Brianna’s body, instead this was all done by the community, who paid for her casket and burial services. Later baby Brianna family caged her burial ground to prevent the community visiting her grave.

The video hurt me so much that i decided to write this down in my blog. I can’t imagine what baby Brianna went through when she was alive. She  was only a baby, a helpless baby who can only cry but could not defended herself from the Satan parents.

I hope the parents and uncle will rot in jail. No child deserved to be treated like this no matter how stressful it can be.

Stop child abuse.. and if you are not ready to be a parents, you can always opt to let your child be adopted. It’s cruel to say like that..but i rather say it, then letting the child be abused, raped and killed at the end of the day.

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R.I.P Baby Brianna.

From: Niresh Regmi
Sent: Wednesday, 27 August 2008 9:35 a.m.
To: Kyle Doyle
Subject: Absence on Thursday 21^st 2008

Hi Kyle,

Please provide a medical certificate stating a valid reason for your sick leave on Thursday 21^st 2008.

Thank You

NIRESH REGMI

Real Time Manager, Workforce Operations

From: Kyle Doyle
Sent: Wednesday, 27 August 2008 9:38 a.m.
To: Niresh Regmi
Subject: RE: Absence on Thursday 21^st 2008

Niresh,

1 day leave absences do not require a medical certificate as stated in my contract, provided I have stated that I am on leave for medical reasons.

Thanks

Regards,

Kyle Doyle
Resolutions Expert – Technical

From: Niresh Regmi
Sent: Wednesday, 27 August 2008 9:39 a.m.
To: Kyle Doyle
Subject: RE: Absence on Thursday 21^st 2008

Hi Kyle,

Usually that is the case, as per your contract. However please note that leave during these occasions is only granted for genuine medical reasons. You line manager has determined that your leave was not due to medical reasons and as such we cannot grant leave on this occasion.

NIRESH REGMI

Real Time Manager, Workforce Operations

From: Kyle Doyle
Sent: Wednesday, 27 August 2008 9:43 a.m.
To: Niresh Regmi
Subject: RE: Absence on Thursday 21^st 2008

Hi Niresh,

My leave was due to medical reasons, so you cannot deny leave based on a line manager’s discretion, with no proof, please process leave as requested.

Thanks

Regards,

Kyle Doyle
Resolutions Expert – Technical

Hi Kyle,

I believe the proof that you are after is below

“Kyle Doyle is not going to work, fuck it i’m still trashed. SICKIE WOO!”

NIRESH REGMI

Real Time Manager, Workforce Operations

Hahahhahahaha…Now do you still want to have your bosses in your FB account?

Kyle should get this for himself now term life insurance rates