Lately the weather has been bit coo coo too here in KL…sungguh the panas… wish i have that super good home ventilation machine to help cool down the heat, but nope… pakai kipas sajala..full blast!

Been busy too lately with my trainers exam. Travelling up and down Kl area..sigh.. i hate travelling di kl.. sudah la jam, parking mahal, tol banyak… makanan in the mall pun super expensive! GAHHHH!

Anyhow, i just wanna tell you all that im still here alive an dkicking..blog update will be bit slow for now..busy with work so i guess that’s it for me today.

Have a great weekend peeps!

How fast time flew….i wish i could turn back time to month of March ( pre wed photoshoot) then fast forward to month of May and June one more time! I am still in my wedding mode ( NOT HONEYMOON MODE YET) I still wanna enjoy my big day..i still can’t get enough of everything…LOL! Tamaha , i know…but heh…syiok ba I’ve been watching my wedding video done by Bryan Kouju for like more than 6 times now..still can’t get bored of it…my wedding pictures done by Alvin Ting pun sama…balik balik see the pics… ahhh..im in love with my wedding ceremony…hahaha ( adaka like that ah)? Since, im madly in love with everything about my wedding..im soooooooo gonna share the pictures with you all here.. i will only put up some of it..if you wanna see more.. you can either blog hop to Alvin ting‘s blog  or Bryan kouju‘s site for our wedding video or my husband’s blog. ( although im not sure if he has blogged about it or not..but im sure he will if not today but surely soon )

Enjoy the pictures…all pictures taken courtesy of ….our official photographer… Alvin T!

My wedding gown

My wedding shoe….ala- ala cinderella’s shoe  :)

My MUA Mart Buguk

My only picture of my wedding nails.  Ready made extension

Loves the way he did my hair

My wedding bouquet..although i remember telling the florist..i want thicker and “fatter” flower ( at the hand grip)..tapi hmm kurus juga la pilihan hati si Florist tu…LOL! Oh well…i still love the hand bouquet..sun flower is my fav

The back of my wedding gown. Love this gown very much.

Walking down the aisle with mom and Brother.

The exchange of the ring.

Officially Husband and wife now, yeay!

]]> http://kadazanbonita.com/2010/06/22/its-been-a-month-now/feed/ 12 http://kadazanbonita.com/2010/05/29/choosing-the-ring/ http://kadazanbonita.com/2010/05/29/choosing-the-ring/#comments Sat, 29 May 2010 15:17:56 +0000 emelda http://kadazanbonita.com/?p=2600 Please don’t take this post wrongly…but this is just to advice and tell you soon to be newly wed couple out there… tips on how to get your wedding ring. Ni langsung tiada niat sia mau menunjuk or anything… I know how choosing THE ring can be a headache specially…bila budget tight!

Choosing your wedding ring is not as easy as you think it will and definitely not like some document management software stuff where you can just click and get the stuff out from your computer organizer …there is so many things that you will need to consider.

1- Budget- VERY VERY Important!

2- Are you going to choose gold,white gold or platinum? We choose white gold only.. no moolah la to buy platinum..beside ..platinum pun bukannya tidak pandai luntur….

3- The design of your ring. How you want it to be design….Since we buying it from the display glass itself.. so this was not an issue for us.

4- Are you buying matching ring or different design? We decided to go with individual design instead of couple ring…

5- Does shop “brand” is in your priority list??  As for us..it was not… any shop will do so long as it gives us the right cost and design

Last point……

- SALES…WAIT FOR THE BIG SALES…TRUST ME…YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT!

Of cos saying that..you will definitely need to sit down and discuss the whole points as pointed above with your partner, specially if he will be the one taking out the moolah@ cash, unless if you guys have decided to split the bill.

I definitely did discuss the whole thing with Daniel… since he was the one paying the bill for our wedding ring. ( as you can already see, my above points to you)

We started hunting for our wedding ring from Dec last year itself… but only got THE ONE in april..we really did take our time to choose and pick.

Once,we did put a downpayment for our ring at one of the jewelery shop but 3 weeks later decided to not take the ring…of cos, downpayment forfeited but that’s another different story.We decided to wait for 2010 design instead of taking last year design after putting some thoughts and asking advice from family members.

I must say, our wait did paid off.. not only i got the one that i really like ( albeit getting the ONE was really though because the other blings was calling me too ) but i got it at a real good price because the shop was really having a crazy sales!  Apparently the crazy sales was on because diamond price will go up by 4% from May onwards.. now this news..im not sure how far true it will be… but that’s what the salesman said…so me cuma menyampaikan saja…

So instead of paying the original price of my wedding ring..which to me personally was a hefty price to pay.. ( Im not rich and so is Daniel, please don’t get me wrong..bukan mau menunjuk) im proud to say..we manage to get my ring cheaper than what we budgeted and yet..i got the design and look that i wanted!

so here’s the ring…. and i got this not from one of those diamond branded name shop..but only from WAH CHAN Jewelry shop

Im happy with my choice. Price wise (after discount that is!) and design too

And this is his ring… We got it from MY DIAMOND shop..no this is not one of those super expensive diamond shop..but very similar to wah chan standard.

So my advice once again-

discuss..discuss..discuss…compromise…compromise..compromise…always always be patience and hunt for the best discount that you can ever find…trust me…jewelry shop will always have their discount just around the corner..well wah chan did ;D

P/s: My nails is done DIY… and its an extension too, in case you wondering. AHAKS!

I was  also attacked by rashes everywhere on my body .. GATALLLL my badan. Dang it!

Not too mentioned the headache attack once a while and feeling tired and restless at time. My temper meter pun pendek sikit without me realizing it…

And dangggg, i have a lottttttt of gas man in me tummy!!! LOL!! Kentutttttttt saja kerja sia.. inda bulih control sangat pula tu…wahahahha…

I realize i can’t concentrate much lately, sia mengantuk ja tapi bila malam kadang-kadang susah pula sia mau tidur..and even if i sleep well night before, i still feel tired the next day. Like now, im actually yawning away and having bit of headache.

Inda payah la i say about my appetite, LOL! It increase  so much lately that i have gained another 2kg, making me 56kg officially as of yesterday! GEEEEZZZ..so not making me feel good at all!

But what make thing good about me quiting is that, i do feel much “lighter” and happier every time i think of my achievement and as time goes by..i can actually feel my chest slowly clearing up and it feel so much “cleaner”  :D

I also now hate the smell of cigarettes! I can’t take it..sia pandai pening! hahah..how weird is that? Padahal dulu sia pun smoker..

Nasib la juga dia punya withdrawal syndrome inda bagi jerawat … kalau inda terpaksa sia mencari best acne treatments in town oh.. not a good timing to have acne now.. not when my wedding is only 5 weeks away. Kalau betul sia kena attackk tu ar.. i think sia akan pick up the bad habit balik oh..hahahhahah.

Ba anyway, sudah la sia berceloteh ( eh betul ka tu, berceloteh??) Mau pulang sudah sia ni … talk to you soon la!

Just wanna wish you and family Happy Chinese new year 2010! May the year of the tiger bring you lots of joy, love, good health, tonnes of wealth and lotsssssssssssss of  good luck this year!

And to those who celebrate Valentine’s day…happy kasih habis duit belanja lebih lebih on this one day special occasion..hahahahahha…

“i just don’t understand why the need to spent extra 50-70% just to celebrate valentine’s day?? Bukan hari hari bulih celebrate ka tu? Beli bunga, bawa pi nice romantic dinner…. kan sudah valentine day? Kenapa la mau kasih habis duit just for this one day “valentine’s day”? hmmmmm..cut throat la some of the places nowadays.. mungkin diorang punya daily deals kan tinggi ba tu kan?? So ambil la kesempatan jual barang and hike the price sampai 50-70% extra?? Gila oh i tell you…isk isk isk!

Sayang duit ja..

Anyway, ok la… i actually just wanna wish you all tu ja… Happy CNY and happy valentine’s day!

Lot’s of love,

Emelda

Anyway, i saw this site today and i thought i should share this with you in case you are looking for one cute Logo usb drive

Oh i went to Beyonce pre concert yesterday, emmm ok la juga tu party.. tapi i was there only 1 hour 15 min and we decided to go home.. i love the performance and i think im gonna learn the move and dance when im in the concert..hehehe wanna knwo more about this dance im talking about and you wanna dance along with everyone on the day, go to this link given!!

So what are you waiting for? Mari menari sama sama!!!

I love the lyrics so much, it’s so simple but so true and meaningful… enjoy the song

I’m only human, I’m just a woman.
Help me believe in what I could be
And all that I am.
Show me the stairway, I have to climb.
Lord for my sake, teach me to take
One day at a time.

Chorus:
One day at a time sweet Jesus
That’s all I’m asking from you.
Just give me the strength
To do everyday what I have to do.
Yesterday’s gone sweet Jesus
And tomorrow may never be mine.
Lord help me today, show me the way
One day at a time.

Do you remember, when you walked among men?
Well Jesus you know if you’re looking below
It’s worse now, than then.
Cheating and stealing, violence and crime
So for my sake, teach me to take
One day at a time.

Have a great Monday peeps and remember take one day at a time

Totally out of topic but i need to ask juga… do you know where i can get colon cleanser? Anyone?

I will not be posting anything up for few days until i recover from this lil virus that  i am having now.

Don’t worry peeps, Im not having  major virus but just the usual common stuff.. flu, slight fever and body ache. Gone to the clinic and was given MC yesterday and meds.  I should be ok soon.

Till then, i will be spending my time resting and sleeping..Guess my pictures for Christmas and all will have to be delayed again..and have you heard also? Rihanna is coming down to KL this coming 13th Feb 2009 Anyone wanna go? The cheapest ticket is Rm128.

“Pssst, great Valentine gift for your partner ”

Oh ya, anyone going to New York this year and planning to go and see New York Yankess team play? If yes, click this link New York Yankees tickets and get your 2009 NY Yankees tickets! I heard they have completed the new stadium, must be exciting kan?

Sunday Afternoon…..a conversation between me and a stranger in a lift

Him: Are you staying here?

Me: Yea i am..( in my heart – Duh! Dumb question)

Him: Never seen you around here before..you new here?

Me: No, im not. It’s just that i don’t go out much.

Him: Ahh..i see. So are you married?

Me:  Nope, im not married. “in my head-Geez, what a place to pick up woman, In a LIFT!”

Him: So can i call you and maybe we can hang out together?

Me: No, sorry i’m attached.

“Ting” lift bell rang

Me: “Relief”

Him: “Sounding sad ” Oh, ok…sorry,thank you. ” He slumped and walk out the door without even looking at me”

Me: In my head ” That man is desperate to have a girl”

Men out there-instead of sounding/acting desperate, why don’t you start with a small chat, maybe send her to her unit FLOOR ( never follow her to her house as this will scare her!) and then ask her for her number. I believe if you do it right, the “Jackpot number” will be revealed to you easily at the end of the journey. And oh..don’t sound nervous too..cos if you do..we know..trust me.

Looking for MP3 players as a christmas present? Check out the link given I am sure you won’t be dissapointed.

How was your whole week last week peeps? I hope it was great. My week was a lazy week for me.. Yes, i was not really motivated to do anything except..surf the net,sit, my mind wonders God knows to where and yes..imagining Christmas holiday!!! 

Hey, can you guys help me? I need ideas on what should i get for Botak for his birthday. I have thought of one present, but i could not make up my mind just yet. Worse i have to get him 2 presents..Birthday and Christmas! Aiyooooo..bankrupt i tell you(itu belum masuk my baju christmas) hmm, maybe i should just scrap my Christmas dress kan? After all its only family gathering ..i survived few years celebrating Christmas without buying new dress so another year won’t make any different..

Urg, i just got a call from mom..im upset to be honest..she is not willing to change her flight date to the date that we suggested. She is coming down here on the 1st and i cant take leave on that day as i need to work and save my annual leave for Christmas. She will be here for 1 week and will head back home to kk after that..so i guess, i wont be spending time with mom as much as i planned earlier on..she will be with Sis in genting from Monday till Wednesday/Thursday and then i have no idea where will they be.. URG! Sia merajuk and sakit hati.. i think i’m sick la.. sikit sikit merajuk now..

Anyway..don’t want to dwell on this matter any longer..what ever it is.. let it be la.

Daniel forwarded this to me..i find it amusingly funny..i like how Pete replied to all the questions.. here read on: ( Took only those i like the best)

Taken from Malaysia Today

Dear Pete,
Yesterday, the Anti-Corruption Agency arrested my cousin and alleged that he had attempted to bribe a Road Transport Department officer. They found the money hidden in his underwear and said that they had been monitoring his movements for some time on suspicion of handing out dirty money. What should I advice him to do? Should he just plead guilty and hope for a lesser sentence or should he fight the case out in court?

Wong

Dear Wong,
It would be very hard for the prosecution to prove that your cousin had attempted to hand out dirty money unless they can first prove that his underwear was not clean. I would advice him to fight the case out in court. Just make sure that he removes his underwear and lodges it in a safe place or else something ‘dirty’ might be planted on it like they sometimes do in cases such as sodomy.

Pete

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Dear Pete,
I plan to get a dog but I live in a neighbourhood where some of my neighbours are Muslims. I was told that dogs are taboo to Muslims and I do not want to upset my neighbours. I also read somewhere that the majlis perbandaran has a team of dogcatchers that goes around mercilessly killing dogs. How can I ensure that I do not upset my Muslim neighbours and will not run foul of the authority?

Mike

Dear Mike,
Muslims do not like doggies licking them as doggie saliva is considered najis or unclean. They have no problems getting licked by pussies though. In fact, they quite enjoy it. Just make sure that your doggie does not lick any Muslim and you should face no problems. The best would be to keep your doggie within your compound and not allow it to stray outside. Anyway, doggies that stray all over the place face the risk of getting knocked down by a car or it might catch an infectious disease. So that is all the more reason to keep them within your compound. And avoid Mongolian breeds as the police SWAT team has been told to be on the lookout for Mongolian bitches, though for what reason I really don’t know.

Pete

hahahaaah…that’s a sharp sharp sharp one…right to the hati! Ahaks!

Anyway , i better get back to work… Happy Monday.

PENANG: The National Fatwa Council will come out with a ruling relating to yoga exercise soon.

The announcement would be made by the council’s chairman, Prof Datuk Dr Abdul Shukor Husin, said Deputy Director-General (Operations) of the Department of Islamic Development Malaysia (Jakim) Othman Mustapha.

He told reporters this Wednesday after opening the two-day seminar on Islamic Jurisprudence and Eternal Islamic Thinking at Universiti Sains Malaysia jointly organised by the Islamic Studies Division of the university’s Human Knowledge Study Centre and Jakim here.

On Tuesday, lecturer Prof Zakaria Stapa of Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia’s Islamic Studies Centre advised Muslims who have taken up yoga to stop practising it for fear that it could deviate their belief. – Bernama

Hahahahha…hahahahah..hahahahah.hahahahah..hahahahah ROFL!!

Malaysia is just getting GOOD and  BETTER at all NONSENSE la…i have worked in Yoga center and and fitness center for 9 year. I have not seen any of the yoga instructor teaching or influencing the practitioner to deviate from their belief. MInd you, the best yoga instructors we had last time was a muslim man and muslim lady..they turn out perfectly fine to me..nothing sort of this “deviate” from their belief behaviour happening to them and members really love them..

Common la…now i really wonder what coming next.

Post is taken from the star newspaper today.

Hmm oh well..let’s go and check out acne treatment solution instead..guess sini banyak lagi benda yg syiok mau baca kan? At least dapat tau apa product yg bagus..hehe

Will you die a day without having to give your ex a hard time in her life? You never treated her right anyway when she was with you. You hit her, you shouted at her in public, you abused her mentally, you cheated on her…why the hell do you still want to hurt her so much?? !!! Even after she have said it’s over between you two?? Gosh! For F sake  leave her alone…and move on with your life dude…don’t be such a sore ass man!

Yes, i was that pissed and sad at the same time this morning, while talking to one of my “friend” at IM( idiotic friend that is)…reading what he wrote on the screen made my heart cringe with irritation and pain. While i try to hit some sense to his thick skull i didn’t realise my eyes was teary and red..yes.. i did. I did shed tears…it was so embarrassing..but i cant help it.Thank goodness, the office is kinda empty today.

I don’t know what triggered that to happen, heck actually i know what triggered that to happen it was because i was in her shoe before. I was in an abusive relationship. I was mentally and physically abused. He was a ticking bomb, you said the wrong thing( for him everything is wrong la nothing is ever right) be prepare to receive one good “loving” slap on the face!As if slapping me or hitting me is not good enough, he will find another way to hurt me…. calling me names, telling me how useless i am, how ugly i am… whatever it is la..you name it.. he have said it. My parents name was not spared too….

Mind you..he was 6 feet 2  and weighing 100 plus Kg and i was only 5 feet 2 and 50kg …the relationship only lasted for 7 months but it was pure hell for me… it didnt start well anyway..my fault, should have ended it much earlier…but me being me..hard headed, i continued hoping that he will change. SIGHHHHHHH.That was a BIG MISTAKE.

I can’t remember how i ended the relationship but i’m darn sure that soon after i said its over he was out having fun with another woman which turn out to be one sicko woman ( serve him good!). Me on the other hand  was left all alone here in KL without anyone. All i have was his sister who was kind enough to give me a place to stay while i look for a place to rent.

4 Years later, he called me asking me to come back to him.. he told me how much he misses me and how much did he regret for treating me that way.. and this went on for 2 years!! 2 freaking years!!!And everytime he ask me to go back to him… my answer never change… It’s over, moved on and let’s be friend. Once, while i was dating someone  i remember him ringing and texting me in the middle of the night, telling me that i lied to him and bla bla bla bla..Just because i didnt tell him YES I AM DATING THIS MAN! Hmmm…

Anyway, this was 8 years ago… but hell no,i have never forgotten how much he have hurt me or abused me before.

Sigh…

To all the men out there, Love and respect your woman. Remember we are not your punching bag/toy or even pet beds which you can just kick us and push us aside. We are just like you, human with feelings and needs.

“Kadang kadang orang yang paling kita sayang la yang paling susah untuk disayangi” Bukan senang nak dapat teman hidup yang sanggup terima buruk baik kita, sanggup berkorban untuk kita, sanggup hidup bersama hingga ke akhir hayat“- Taken from Cinta.